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I and my wife got divorced 5 years ago because she said my work doesn’t permit me to always be around her often as she wants... Ever since I refused to remarry to another woman hoping she will come back to me because of our only son Jerry. But right now she has gotten married to another man... please What should I do?
Last edited by Roger stone; 04/25/21 03:25 PM. Reason: Spelling correction
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Welcome to MB.
You should accept that she has moved on and do the same.
BW
Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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Welcome to MB.
You should accept that she has moved on and do the same. I agree with SugarCane. Have you dated at all? Do you have 50/50 custody of your son? What kind of job do you have that didn’t permit you to be around her enough?
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I supply hospital equipment across country
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My son is with me ... and I don’t think I will allow the 50/50 chances cos my son is the only thing left for me that gives me happiness... I have not dated any woman as I now have trust issues.
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Okay brother , but is somehow hard to move on. Can I still get a woman to trust and love in this life?
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Okay brother , but is somehow hard to move on. Can I still get a woman to trust and love in this life? Roger, the reason for asking you about your job is that marriages cannot survive separation as you have already found. You need to be together every night. So you will have to change your job if you want to remarry unless you can find someone willing to travel with you as a team.
3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
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