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Hello,
I'm afraid my FWH is now a WH. However, i cannot approach him with anything because i do not have hard evidence...only word from a relative who spotted him on Friday night with some girl. Am also quite sure that he will be very defensive and it might end up being a big argument. Anyway, being a born again christian, i was wondering whether it would be sinful if i contracted the services of a PI. I feel that i really need to be sure before i approach him.
Thanks
PS: somebody please please give me a biblical perspective....all other comments are also invited (heh heh)
Me: BS 31
FWH/WH? 32
DD 3years
DD 2years
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I am a Christian. The Bible talks about that the truth shall be rellieved. If you have asked him and he denies it, but you have reason to believe otherwise then I do not see anything wrong with it. Have you watched Shall We Dance. If youy find out you are wrong you will have peace of mind and can apologize for not believeing him. If you find out that he is cheating you can take steps to protect yourself. The Bible makes it clear that cheating is wrong and not acceptable. You might also want to consider MC to strengthen your marriage and help build trust regardless of what you find out.
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Thanks for your advice stormy. Now i know what to do?
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