Just to let you know - we think this was the OP to one of our members. Everyone in these forums needs to watch out that this could occur in any situation - because of the OP finding out from a WS that their BS is on these boards.<P>Look for the good posts - people to help you, and read, read, read Surviving an Affair (SAA), and His Needs, Her Needs (HNHN). <P>hugs, aftershock