I am using this Poll to find out how many BS believe that their spouse will stray again

Those questions are to scary to answer.

Interesting that one out of three so far say revenge affairs are okay. Wonder what the percent would be if the poll were 100% betrayed spouses?

Does anyone know the statistical recidivism rate for A and the associated study details (date, sample size, male/female, etc.)? I am new to this experience all of 3 days and am seeking information.

So what do people think...

Once a cheater always a cheater? yes or no but, more importantly, why?

Thanks

well i could give the text book answer that who ever cheated their needs stopped being met once again by the other spouse. after the affair is brought to light things are say on a "honeymoon" but after awhile the W and H get busy again stop putting their immediate needs in front of their spouse and bingo the air is ripe for another A.

I voted~ .. about the revenge affair part.. don't you think i've thought about it? Then again that would just put myself to his level and being stupid to have sex with someone else just to make my H jealous? No! If I have to cheat, I need to enjoy it.. not just ot make him jealous <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Harudah:
<strong> I voted~ .. about the revenge affair part.. don't you think i've thought about it? Then again that would just put myself to his level and being stupid to have sex with someone else just to make my H jealous? No! If I have to cheat, I need to enjoy it.. not just ot make him jealous <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Who ever said that you wouldnt enjoy your revenge affair?

Perhaps you choose a man years younger then your H, with a 32 inch waist, tight abs, strong chest and arms and is very attentive to every whim.
Maybe the person you would have the A with can move you in ways the old chubby hubby couldnt dream of while lasting long enough for you to have 4 orgasims within the first 45 minutes of a 2 hour long passionate love making session, it's likely the chubby hubby wouldnt look so appealing after an A like that. You wouldnt have to think about the details of his "A" because your sure the chubby hubbys "A" sexualy couldnt hoold a candle to yours <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
(kidding but not)

Bog.. hehe mY husband have a 32 inch waist.. can hold it down sexually.. only thing that'd get him jealous if the guy had a Lexus and a 40 inch chest. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />