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Guys- <BR> You have been the greatest this weekend. Thanks again for all of the great advice in dealing with my H and what could have been an ugly situation... <P>arm6868@yahoo.com<P>And for those of you wondering what the "situation" might have been..<P>H wrote me a very emotional letter speaking of all the mistakes that he had made and appoligizing for all of the lies. He then called me every night for two weeks and even arranged a breakfast "date" for me when I got home Saturday morning. Well... the lying never stopped and after his emotional roller coaster he moved back in with OW sometime before I got off my busniess trip.. I found out, confronted him on it and he tried to lie some more.. I was going to send that "touching" letter to the OW, but the guys talked me out of it.. No need to be spiteful and revengeful... They are the ones who have to face each other.. <P><BR>

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Dear Blindsided:<P>Sorry not to be able to communicate yesterday.<P>I'd say the ideas expressed were good ones.<P>I am trying very hard to follow the process of keeping the high ground myself. Spite, like what we say about others, says more about us than others.

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Dear Blindsided:<P>Sorry not to be able to communicate yesterday.<P>I'd say the ideas expressed were good ones.<P>I am trying very hard to follow the process of keeping the high ground myself. Spite, like what we say about others, says more about us than others.

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Curt- <BR> You are correct. It was a fleeting moment of anger and betrayal that I felt. I would have regretted what I had done.. <P>If you are still on, we are signed on to MSN chatting right now... as arm6868@hotmail.com

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If I helped in anyway...You are welcome. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Bill

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what is everyone's IM account name?

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No thanks are necessary....It's all just part of the job [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>You're welcome.<P>


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