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My W called the other morning to see how I was doing. Actually, I think she was testing me to see if she’s still welcome here. I talked about small stuff and she kept referring to things that I had done recently that made her feel good. Then she said she was thinking of coming home. So, after a day I decided to email her. She had an appointment tonight to see her counselor so I wasn’t able to see her tonight but I asked that she called me. Of course she didn’t and I wasn’t able to reach her. I suspect she is with the OM. I just about gave up on her before she called but she pulled me back in with that one call. I’m so stupid, at the time I thought my suspicions were right that she saw me getting comfortable with her not here and wanted to pull me back in. I shouldn’t have let that happen. Unless she does something unbelievable kind or caring I think I’m done with her.
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Purple Tang:<BR><B>I suspect she is with the OM. I just about gave up on her before she called but she pulled me back in with that one call. I’m so stupid, at the time I thought my suspicions were right that she saw me getting comfortable with her not here and wanted to pull me back in. I shouldn’t have let that happen. Unless she does something unbelievable kind or caring I think I’m done with her.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Dear PT,<BR>This is roller coaster ride of your life. I am in it too, hang in there. Try not to think negative about her or second gussing, try to think wonderfull thing that you both shares in the past, it helps me a lot when I am on downward spiral. It lifts you up high then it drops & turns you upside down. I have to take pepacid every morning to help me through this. Keep at it until either the fog lifts up and clears up. However watch out your selfesteem and hang in there ... imagine riding the coaster without safety belt.<P>Hadi<P><P>------------------<BR>Give your absolute best such that you could look back 10 years from now w/ no regret.
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Hey PT,<P>You are officially on the rollersoaster, but at least she was able to be nice to you for a nano-second there! My H hasn't really been able to convey that caring feeling to me, though he does ask how I am etc. I just think "How the H*** do you think I am?" So I guess for me, it is my attitude to his questions.<P>You are doing well, keep up the old Plan A stuff, and show her the best you there is.<P>Thinking of you!<P>Jacky
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