Have major problems with H taking kids out with OW again. I was wondering how you are doing. I have a motion hearing for my divorce at the end of November and now H is looking like he has something to say but doesn't know how. I think getting the papers served to him might have rattled him a bit. Yeah, I finally just had a process server do it because he lied about going to pick them up for 5 days straight. Never could find the time. <P>Well, if he could find the time to be my H and not be screwing around with the WH))), none of this might have been necessary to start with.<P>His fog is thicker than Pea Soup!!!!!<P>Looking forward to hearing how you and the children are. I hope you were able to work things out with our family and that you have been given a bit more grace from mum.....<P>Lynn

Hi Lynn,<P>First ((((((((((LYNN)))))))))))))<P>The fog, yeah, my H is in it big time too. He hasn't contacted me for two weeks, and the kids have only had one call in tat time, when they were at IL's. He is divorcing them too.<P>Well, I have been fine. I took a few baby steps this week which made me feel good. I have an appointment with a lawyer next week, so he can't take my son OS, and I am looking at a house today.<P>My mum is okay, I just keep out of the way. She is trying, I think.<P>Lynn, I am learning to just do waht I have to do. It is hard. You are ahead of me and doing so well...it will be easier when you totally detach from him - a total Plan B. I feel much more at peace with myself about my decision to do that, and I don't get any grief because I don't have to talk to him...mind you he likes it that way!<BR> [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]<BR>Take care of yourself, hon, and be calm.<P>Love and light,<P>Jacky

Good to hear your ... wait a minute... that's my voice I hear when I read your posts...<P>Anyway, good to hear from you.<P>Did you happen to read my letter to OW??<P>I would appreciate your comments. I have not sent it.....<P>Lynn