Well, my story is pretty simple, but pretty sad....... My wife cheated on me after only 3 months of marriage. I truly loved this woman, and she turned everything around on me and blamed me for the affair. I really did give her everything I possibly could. I filed for Divorce, and actually received a divorce FOR CAUSE (I live in Utah) of adultery. I thought that simple admission on her part would help me move on.

Instead, I concentrate on the things that I did wrong. I think of the mistakes I made. Yet I also seem to be caught in the hurt that was done unto me. All of this had pushed me into a very deep depression I can't get out of.

This had resulted in me losing my job. My father also just passed away. I have run away to the mountains, and now live in a very remote cabin. It has become an interesting place of refuge for me for awhiles to try and work out my life.

After all of this, how does one just forgive and forget and move on? I am having a very hard time dealing with this whole situation. I really believed in the marriage and to have it all torn apart like this leaves very deep scars.

Any experience here anyone????

Eric