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I don't know how I feel I don't feel sad at all. I'm kind of happy at the progress H and I made this last year. And as most of you know it's been hard. I don't want to relive the entire D-Day in my mind. Did any of you feel this way? I'm happy H and I are still together, He's my soul mate. But I'm pissed I'll have this date etched in my mind forever. Oc is also 9 months today. I almost dread the 10th of every month.<P>So keep me and my family in your prayers. I don't want to LB today at all. I'm going to clean my house throughly feed the kids before H gets home. And plan a nice romantic night with him what do you think? I already told H it meant a lot to me to make new memories to remember today.<P>Unsure <p>[This message has been edited by UNSure919400 (edited September 10, 2001).]

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My 1st Dday anniversary is coming up sometime in the next couple of weeks. I don't remember the date. I know that if I look back on a calendar, I could figure it out, but I don't really want to know. I am with you. Why live in the past? I am glad we have gotten this far; there is still a long ways to go in recovery but we are definitely on the right road.<P>MJ

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I have the anniversary of our apt. collapsing and losing everything we owned. That is tomorrow...we are still in litigation. And my D-day anniversary is two months away. The fall last year sucks! What hit me today is that a year ago, I had no idea what tomorrow was going to bring. It never even occurred to me that these things could happen little own with a couple of months of each other. What does not kill us makes us stronger.

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I had a pretty normal day. I only had one flair up when my brother mentioned he was getting his tax rebate this week. I said we're not getting one when my brother asked why? I said never mind. H owes about $600.00 back CS he didn't start paying CS until OC was 3 months old. It pissed me off the exOW will be shopping etc with my share of the tax rebate. One good thing is that the rebate should clear up all back CS owed. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P><BR>Unsure


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