DUH! I'm a DORK! lOL I thought it said moved FROM maine...........I was wondering HOW you were driving in that much snow down here!???lolololol

Anyway...that IS an idea that it is JUST for attention.

Women can do some pretty stupid things for attention. OUr OW claimed OC had all kinds of emotional problems AND SEVERE asthma, even told the DR that OC NEVER stopped coughing, EVER, even though we constantly reassured OW that OC hardly EVER coughed while w/ us. OW even had the DR write us a note stating that OC had MILD asthma-----even though we already knew all of that! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Games people play.

I like the baby book idea. I'd even wrap it & hand it over w/ a BIG smile. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

xoxoxoxxoxoxo
kt

I wish I was in San Diego right now. I just went down to switch the laundry and it is -1 degrees right now. This morning it was -10 when I went to the grocery store. *BRRRR* Coming from 90 degree weather to negative weather is SO HARD. Last winter it was -19 and I thought I was going to die.
As for the OW and the OC, you know, she is going to do what she is going to do. There is NOTHING I can do about it when the OC isn't here. Therefore, the OC will just be WELL TAKEN care of with us and well, whatever with her. I just feel like if I put time and effort into trying to explain how to raise a baby she will just BLOW it off...so what is the POINT?????? Just a waste of time!
But my little one has been VERY active today. I've been able to feel him kick for awhile but today he has been dancing on my bladder all day.
For all those here in the Northeast just stay safe with this blizzard warning in effect!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Hurt5-04:
<strong> Kt,

We used to live in San Diego. I went to SDSU for 3.5 years until we were transferred so I wasn't able to finish. We were living in El Cajon before we moved but I've lived on campus and in Clairmont as well. We were transferred to Maine July 03. Its been quite a culture shock to come from San Diego where life is so BUSY to Maine where everyone moves like turtles! Tonight they are calling for 8 to 16 inches of snow and blizzard conditions. OH GOODY!
As for the OW saying that stuff, yes, I believe she would do such a thing like that. She has never been around kids and has NO clue how to raise a little one. I know there are many things you aren't to give a little one because of allergics and stomach issues. Anyways, she is just stupid. I know all OW's are.... </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Did you forget to finish your sentence????????

I dont want to step on any ones toes, But I am guessing this womans knowledge of baby care has nothing to do with who she slept with. I have seen some very uneducated people as far as raising a baby. Many have been married and not to someone elses husband! lol

If she is really feeding the baby these things, then she obviously has not been taught the proper way. I think a gift of a baby book would be a lovely gift, but after that I would leave it alone.

um, i never said that her sleeping with my H had anything to do with how she is raising the baby. And I didn't forget to finish my sentence. I was just leaving it open in regards to that all OW's tend to be pretty stupid.

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Justuss

You ARE wonderful!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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This is a SUPPORT board for Marriage Builders****

<small>[ January 23, 2005, 12:35 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

Lonely

GET Lost! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Hurt5-04:
<strong> Anyways, she is just stupid. I know all OW's are.... </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Alright Justuss, I'll paraphrase my previous entry as PC as possible.

Hurt-
We are all individuals.

Just as your H is not my xMM, ALL OW's are not your H's OW.
Please do not stereotype ALL based on your H's OW.

Stupid she may be, but that doesn't mean WE ALL are.

Oh no- no, lonely, please stay-- we LOVE a nice resident STOW to come and CONFIRM WHY decisions for NC need to be...

To remind the ladies here who are FRESH to this, why their H chose thier WIFE as men do when they bring their stupid *****home.

It makes me feel good when an OW comes and says HYSTERICAL things like "the only thing you can control"

HA- how the **** can an OW believe she is in control of ANYTHING other than KEEPING THE H OF AN AILING M HAPPY ONLY IF SHE KEEPS HER LEGS OPEN AND KEEPS HER MOUTH AND COMPLAINTS AND HER OC WOES AWAY FROM HIM so not to hurt his wife and family. DUH-- an OW like you makes our H run home when he realizes hid ****has failed his judgemnt!!

"LONELY" GIRL- why are you so lonely- because you CONTROL the MM and we can't?

-- but hey, I'm sure you are a lovely, lovely lady --- Take care!

AND GO STEELERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Oh- Cheerful- didn't mean to leave you out of my last post, how RUDE of me to forget ya!

Cheerful serves QUITE a service here, also.

Though I do AGREE that blanket statements are dangerous-----

YOU ARE AN OW AND THIS IS HER PLACE- you can stifle it cause she gets to feel this way-- what the h*ll do you expect her to think of an OW with the crap SHE and WE are dealing with, woman!!!!!!

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<small>[ January 23, 2005, 10:01 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

G123

It makes me feel good when an OW comes and says HYSTERICAL things like "the only thing you can control"

You crack me up! LOL

Lonely..... WHY YES, lovely, my posts sure *do* speak for themselves, thank you for the compliment!

But the important thing is.....WTF IS a bon-bon, actually? Doesn't Peg Bundy eat those?

Tell me if they are good cause I NEED to eat some to watch the STEELERS KICK SOME [censored] TODAY!

Right Gio, this is her place.

I was simply pointing out an act of stereotyping.

You know:
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Yeah, stereotypes aren't nice, whatever they may be.


I was simply pointing out that she was stereotyping an entire group of society based on her H's OW.

Once again, how do you think that makes those MOW feel? Even those who are HERE with children of affairs, here on MB trying to make their marriage work. Then they read that it's perfectly acceptable for Hurt to call THEM stupid, they are OW's too.

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<small>[ January 23, 2005, 10:02 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

I don't use blanket statements like that. I just call the particular person acting like an ****** an ********
And, for instance, if a person has bad feelings towards an Italian who fed them a poisonous meatball-- I know *I* didn't feed it to them...and I understand..... LOL


These sites require some thick skin at times- and so does real life.

<small>[ January 23, 2005, 10:04 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

All OW were stupid.

What other word justifies their decision to be an OW?!

Now, if they have realized the error of their ways...then they may be able to leave their stupidity in the past.

If they still glorify, and revel in, their OW-ness, then YES they are still pretty damn stupid.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by giovanna123:
<strong> I don't use blanket statements like that. I just call the particular person acting like an ******, an ******* !

</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I know Gio!

That is all I wanted to point out to Hurt.

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