My latest question, that my H won't answer of course (not that I ever should have asked it) is:<P>When you are doing intimate things with your spouse, do you ever feel like you are betraying the OP? If so, how often? Is it fleeting, or is it constant?<P>I'm just curious. I mean did you feel you were betraying your spouse with the affair or was it only when you came out of the fog to realize what you had done?<P>Just curious. Thanks.