Seems we have lots of new folks joining us. And it seems lots of us "non-newbies" (toddlers like myself [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] ) of all ages are going through some weird new challenges. (Is it the moon or something???) [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>"newbies": We are, of course, very sorry your circumstances bring you here, but if you want to do everything you can to save your marriage, and improve your self in the process, this is the place to be! Welcome! I know how welcome I felt when I first came here. The members here are great!<P>Please learn all you can from the MarriageBuilders.com web-site, Harley's books, and from reading posts and replies from others here on the various Forums. And feel free to post your questions for advice from real people going through similar situations as you. We do the best we can at providing support and concern, as well as helping you watch out for mines in the minefield you are walking. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Here is a link to some very good information. This link is to a post on the Just Found Out Forum. Once you click on the link below, scroll down, and read what interests you. The items called "Plan A 101", and "Plan B 101" and 201 are excellent for gaining understanding Plan A and Plan B. <BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000554.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000554.html</A> <P><BR>There's other great "welcome" posts on the Just Found Out Forum that you may want to look at as well. <P><p>[This message has been edited by Faith1 (edited July 30, 2001).]