I am setting here at the computer, with a wine cooler typing up a seperation agreement, and checking MB periodically. Decided that the other post I had was not in a very good plan A spirit, time is running out and I was feeling a little desperate.<P>Just kind of hard realizing the end is so close less then 2 weeks now, and have so much to do yet, like this seperation agreement, it's nothing fancy just states that I can take the kids with me to SD. And a $ amount to be paid by H and each of our financial obligations. This is till I get to SD and H files for divorce.<P>Must go as all my kids plus some have shown up to share cheesecake with me for my birthday. Not such a good day.<P>

Dawn,<P>Wanted to check in on you. You are spending time with your family. That is good. The other stuff can wait. <P>Take a break and enjoy the evening. We'll chat later. <BR>If you need to talk, let me know. <P>L.<P>

I'm having a wine cooler too! <P> ENJOY IT<P>[/B][/QUOTE]<P>

Sorry you are having a rough night. I hope tomorrow is better for you. <P>Enjoy the wincooler, now you've made me thirsty, I think I will grab a Mike's.<P>HbH

Sorry you are so down, sorry you have to go through this. And kids too. I will pray for you. aftershock

Cheesecake was awesome it was one of those sampler kind so everyone got something different!!!! Didn't go so well with the wine cooler though.<P>Got nice thoughtful presents from each of my kids and their respective boy/girlfriend and my 10 yo D walked up to the $ store with a friend and spent $2 on me and $4 on her. Ha!<P>My parents called and so did my best friend and that was nice. H had called early this morning which was nice of him.<P>I just think if only... he could see the things that I see and know the things that I have learned, we could work on our marriage, I wish the fog was lifting like for Faith1. I have to wonder why it is that he has not told his parents or any friends, still haven't decided about the plan B letter thing when we move, that is coming so soon, am not sure that I am able to handle that, it is pretty hard to drive when you can't see thru the tears, 16 yo D says no problem "I'll drive" now those would be tears for different reasons. Ha!!<P>But I keep my chin up keep plan Aing, would still like to figure out somethings to get her to LB so H will get a clue by being pushed from the other side. I keep a smile on my face and answer "nothing" when people ask "what's up?"<P>Thanks for the support each and ever one of you, I am glad that there is this forum for the support, my best friend has never been through this and neither have my parents will be 40 years in Dec for them, those that I know have been through this don't understand why I have chosen to take the high road, and share their bad experiences with me, so the support here is awesome, we all share a common bond, wanting to build on our marriages. Til the morn Dawn<BR>

Daybreak,<BR>Sounds like your evening improved a little. I hope tomorrow goes much better for you. Take care.<P>MS