I'm going to post this at a couple of other forums, too.<BR>I found these two books at my local library and I live in a pretty small town so you should be able to find them, too.<P>"Sudden Endings", Wife Rejection in Happy Marriages<BR>by Madeline Bennett<P>"How Could You Do This To Me?", Learning to trust after betrayal<BR>by Dr. Jane Greer with Margery D. Rosen<P>I'm going to stay off the boards today and try to get some reading done. I'll let you know what I think.