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Well, after quite some time away I lurked in "recovery". Ugh - has someone lost the plot there? I couldnt find any "old friends" - except Twyla who is doing a wonderful job of dispensing sensible comment interspersed with that wonderful humour. Love that gal! Also found a fewother familair names.<p>So, how come you all got here? What is it that takes us out of recovery and into GQ11.?<p>In my case, I have recently had surgery etc for breast cancer. I am doing fine (and I am so tired of the whole post-op treatment!). H has been wonderfully supportive and caring. BUT today I found he has been in contact with OW quite a bit recently.<p>Shute! i wish H, Ow - and breast cancer would just fall off the side of the planet - into a deep black hole - and leave me to get on with my life. Tome I gave them all a big push I guess.<p>Glad i found you all<p>R
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Hey Rosie,<p>I have been wondering about you. Sorry to hear about the breast cancer, hope things will/are going well.<p>Were you surprised to find contact between OW & your H? Are ya'll still seperated or what?
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Hullo Sing<p>I have been wondering about you too! I read your memo - and I must say you sound fantastic! You doing OK?<p>Good prognosis re breast cancer. Just need to recover from surgery and a few post op problems! i will be fine.<p>Yes - I was surprised about H and OW being in contact. we have been making a good recovery - and he has been a wonderful support throughout this. My guess is that the ever enterprising OW heard about me and used it as an excuse to contact H. <p>Cant you just imagine! "Oh, you poor darling - how horrible it must be for you - is there anyhing I can do - let's meet for a chat - love to see you again" etc. And he, silly weak man, thinks "how nice of her" ....<p>Dont want to go back where we have both been so I will just wait and see what happens next. <p>Lovely to hear from you<p>Rosie
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ROSIE!!!<p>I'm so glad you're back...good thing I come over here for a change of pace or I would've missed you completely!<p>i wish H, Ow - and breast cancer would just fall off the side of the planet - into a deep black hole - and leave me to get on with my life. Tome I gave them all a big push I guess.<p>Good thing you added that line about the push! I was beginning to think the "great dame" i know so well had turned into a chihuahua!<p>So, have you formulated a plan? I know you have some family functions coming up with him...is that all still going on?<p>As far as contact..has it been only verbal, ot have they actually met somewhere?<p>Arrgh...he just won't or can't get it! And I know you are fed up.<p>Don't you dare be a stranger now...we do need a little butt-kicking on Recovery...don't know why it's so in the dumps lately.<p>Hugs, T
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Rosie,<p>glad the cancer is going well.<p>OW, well I can't say what I have thought many times in the last few months, it is too political incorrect but do words TAliban says it all.<p>I think watching is most likely your best bet, but keep watching. <p>It still makes me mad that I didn't get to OZ when I was on your side of the world.<p>Over on D/D there is one of your country women Nina Too.<p>later,
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