A SHOW OF HANDS PLEASE - 10/07/99 03:08 PM
I gave my W a copy of Lovebusting last nite. I read it and noticed the mistakes that I have constantly made in my marriage. W still wants to go thru with the D- although she said what happens "if you get served". We basically talked about what we wanted - settlemant. I told her I asked for all the furniture that we bought, amongst other things. she said she took the request for furniture as a knive in the gut. I didn't respond, justify, or anything else.<BR>As I was leaving, she did say that maybe we could keep talking like this- except not at home. I told her that I wasn't uncomfortable, that I see it as a goal- to come home. She knows I love her, I know I have made MAJOR mistakes in this. She is having an affair- she denies it. OM is also married and has kids. I have been snopping anfd have all the evidence. How do I get her to trust me with that and will it ever end. I love her with all of my heart, she says she dosen't hate me, but she needs space. I asked her to read the book, and let me know when I can get it back. Any suggestions- thumbs up or down on my progress? I hope I haven't left anything out.