AFTER THE DIVORCE - 11/10/99 07:45 PM
What can I do? My W has confessed to the affair, and i feel ( and could be way off) her guilt has resulted in wanting this divorce. I am not fighting it anymore- we are parting on good terms with no animosity- well, very little. she knows of my anger towards the situation.<BR>look, we were young, had no clue about marriage- made alot of the mistakes that people here did. stopped working on it, control, anger, etc. issues.<BR>what i am asking is what can i do to convince her that WE can heal together- as a family. Our 4 yr. old son and us. together. I 've read alot of the books here and others-i have also given her a copy of lovebusting and invited her to this forum. I even told her my handle. <BR>You can lead a horse to water, but you cant make 'em drink- i am prepared to go on, but always hope and pray for reconciliation.<BR>any suggestions?