HUGE BLOWUP with husband.... - 01/18/00 05:57 PM
Well I talked to my H a couple of night ago and found out something interesting...<P>He said that he can not live with me and that is the reason he left....<P>He said that it was because I didnt not keep the house the way he wanted and stuff like that (did not do laundry daily..we couldent then had to use a laundry mat...we now have a wahser/dryer...left dirty dishes in sink...dont do that anymore...)....<P>we will have been married 4 years in april and have only lived together a total of 21 months......I told him that that was a silly reason to walk out on his family and if that was the reason it could be worked on and fixed....<P>My parents are not the neatest people in the world, and I told him that it was going to take some time to get into my own nich....<P>I said that I am already better than I was because I know I dont want to be like that. It didnt help matters any that when he would got out to sea I would go home to my parents home and revert.......I am not like that person anymore but he won't give me a chance to prove my self.....<P>What am I suposed to do.......at this point he is hell bent aginst us ever getting back together......I want my family back...<P>I had to take my youngest to the ER last night...he has the flu and was dehydrated and was on IV'S for 3hrs....I called my H to tell him I was taking him and that I would call when I got home....I did....to be honest he did not sound that concerned about it.....I told him that I really needed him there tonight...he did not say anything...<P><BR>amanda<P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever" <P>thevancefamily@hotmail.com