Lostpup reply - 07/18/01 10:01 PM
My H's family is a close Christian family. His mother is VERY hurt about what her son is doing. I called her at work today & she broke down. She said she can NOT take this anymore. She said what her son is doing is wrong & she wants to do something about it, she said she has to, it can NOT go on any longer. She also has been reading a lot of information including a lot of posts from MB & some of their information. She is also reading Surving an Affair. I told her when we yell at H and give him ultimatumes it just makes OW look like the only one who accepts him and loves him. Family to my H is VERY important. Maybe a mean approach would work. Either a life with OW & alone w/ no family or a life with his wife and entire family. He can't have both. I think I am going to let my H read the letter trueheart wrote to all WS out there. My H will probably read it and have OW read it for her manipulating input. She would say "Honey, that stuff is just crap, people will do & say those things because it internet you can't believe it. People will always put in their two cents worth but you need to follow your heart and do things for "Self" happieness just as I have & I'm happy.<P>LOVEMESS