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my prayer tonight is that God will send the holy spirit into those who have "screwed up their lives" to help them realize what they are really "giving up". LIfe is so short, do those ws really want to start it all over again, or spend the rest of the time here on earth with their soul mates? apprecaiate what we have and be thankful.
My prayer is that everyone will be able to resist their natural reaction to get into an argument instead of listening to what the other person has to say.

Gustav
Amen to that!

My prayer is that we will all learn to forgive.

My W has developed the habbit of telling me that I can't, and don't love her - because if I had the tiniest bit of love for her my A would never have happened. In a way she's right - I had lost sight of both her love, and of God's, due [I believe] to my addiction to pornographic images. Each time she responds to me trying to make things better in this confrontational manner it makes me want to scream and shout. Sometimes I hold her negative behavior in my mind for longer than I should. If she is ever to forgive me, I know that I must forgive her - completely and unreservedly. I also know that I am called to do that even if she can't (or won't). Some days that's so hard!

God Bless,
Richard
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