newlywed sexual problems causing fights - 06/16/07 01:04 AM
hi, i just want to start off by saying i'm 24, my wife 23, and we've been married less than a year. we've been together almost 5 years. for the first 3, the sex was great and plentiful. every since we got engaged, it's all gone downhill. every since we got married last august, we're doing good to have sex once a week. i feel this is odd for a young, newlywed couple.
the problems started not too long after my wife had a car accident involving removal of her spleen. she often complains that it hurts occasionally during sex. we've found some methods to ease the pain, but apparently having sex often isn't comfortable. she's promised to see a doctor, but is too stubborn to go now.
my problem is, it's hard to transition from an almost daily thing, to something that happens 3-4 times a month now. being a young man, i still need to have encounters, and i feel she should have the same wants and desires. it also makes me feel as though i'm unwanted when i'm turned down or denied sex from my own wife.
we just got into it again and i can't take it anymore. what do i need to do? we've talked about it several times, but it always ends up in a big fight with no winner
the problems started not too long after my wife had a car accident involving removal of her spleen. she often complains that it hurts occasionally during sex. we've found some methods to ease the pain, but apparently having sex often isn't comfortable. she's promised to see a doctor, but is too stubborn to go now.
my problem is, it's hard to transition from an almost daily thing, to something that happens 3-4 times a month now. being a young man, i still need to have encounters, and i feel she should have the same wants and desires. it also makes me feel as though i'm unwanted when i'm turned down or denied sex from my own wife.
we just got into it again and i can't take it anymore. what do i need to do? we've talked about it several times, but it always ends up in a big fight with no winner