Maybe the reverse of David's post, however, I would like ideas to show my WS that I am supportive and love him.. but not go overboard because I do not want to become a doormat, or do I feel or have him feel as if I am desperate and sophicating him.

So what make a man feel loved?

My Wife gives me a massage everyonce in a while, Just the basic contact makes me feel loved. Maybe something like that?