How do I get over the fact my H slept with a prostitute(that's what he claims) while I was gone.His reason was-I had verbally abused him all these years.We have been married for 13 years and
my anger outbursts were due to his being unsucessful in career,his dishonesty with money matters(he was giving money to his family members behind my back) and lack of domestic support.
He tells me It was once only and i should forget about it as there was no emotional contact.How on earth can I forgive and forget this.It is devastating.I need help.would apprteciate any comments.

I can give you a bit of advice. You'll never forget about this. Don't let him blame you for his indiscretions. He is the one in the wrong and he is trying to find ways to make you look like the bad guy. I am not one for giving advice regarding affairs. BUT I will say this much I am not one for forgiving any man who goes out and cheats on me. <p>Debra

Post on the Infidelity section, Just Found Out and you will get a much better response.<p>Also, read everything on this site, if you haven't yet. It is a wealth of information.