Come on , everybody!! - 03/30/01 05:05 AM
Hey, let's at least dream here, please! <P>I know blanking out creatively is a problem for me so maybe we can spark each other's imaginations (let's keep it clean!) and hopefully help one another.<P>We are going on our first romantic getaway in years (hey, today is 6 week anniversary of d-day!) on Sunday and coming home Tuesday.<P>Here are some things I plan:<P>I got a very cute nighty on sale to please both H and myself (it's a very pretty soft pink--springy and my favorite color)<P>I am getting rose petals to bring to hotel room to spread all around while H is in shower, napping or wherever<BR>I found out my grocery store floral dept will give them to me for nothing or next to it--one florist said it would be $20! for them (I am on a tight budget)<P>I have printed off a love poem (from poetry.com--see my post at Poems tonight-March 28-I think?)Sorry still having trouble with memory and knowing what day it is<P>I bought him a fun card<P>Because I am a writer, I hope to write him another poem..I wrote him one for our first date after confession and he really liked it. I filled the front of the envelope with little things I love about H and happy memory joggers, etc.I suspect he liked the envelope even more than the poem<P>We are leaving things basically unplanned other than swimming , walking if weather permits, working on EN questionnaire and you know! But you know what? Even if we are too tired or whatever, we plan just to touch, hold each other, talk, be together in silence<P>I've found planning for this so healing and helpful. <P>come on, even if it's not happening, tell us what you wish..maybe your spouse will get inspired! I wish you all great happiness and hours of romance. Don't stop hoping!<P><P>------------------<BR>Fresh Start