Just a quik note to POGP. I haven't quite joined you fully yet because I haven't been able to get the book yet. I will join in the disscussions as soon as I have it and have read some.<BR>Thanks for the invite.<P>------------------<BR>Love and Prayers<BR>Nicole<BR>

Nicole,<P>This book will be a blessing to you. You will get the book in God's perfect timing. Arik needs all the prayers from you. <P>One thing it said in the forward section, is how the wife's prayers are more effective than his parents prayers. That puts a huge responsibility on us wives, doesn't it!!!<P>Just keep praying for you, in the mean time - have the spiritual discernment that you need to be the wife that God wants you to be for Arik. Quit focusing on what Arik does and says, but start focusing on how you can be a better wife and meet more needs of Arik's. <P>I couldn't believe that the things that I did differently and better once I started my plan A affected my husband so much. The OW can't meet his needs like you can. Out pace her, and your husband will find his prize is in you, the perfect gift, God's gift to Arik.<P>Endure all things, Nicole. May God give you the spiritual discernment and wisdom to do so. I know he's given you the love. <P>TNT

TNT<BR>You just hit home for me so much in your post to someone else! I just had a conversation with my H that of course i didn't like and I was so focused on what he said and what he was doing that I was stressing! You said "Quit focusing on what he does and says, but start focusing on how you can be a better wife and meet more needs of his." I took out Arik's name to make it general for me but I needed to read those words. Thank You<BR>Lord please make me a better wife and let me meet more of his needs. <P>------------------<BR>morgan