Hi all. I've been posting this around here to help people out who may need it.

I found this site awhile back (March) and it really helped me.

So, I finally found the link again and thought I'd pass it along to help others. I sorta take it as tips for Plan A:

http://www.marriagesavers.org/how_to_live_your_life_in_the_fac.htm

I personally like numbers 1, 2, 4, 8, 10, 12 , and 13.

Comments?

<small>[ November 21, 2002, 11:30 PM: Message edited by: aanast2 ]</small>

Thanks for that web page. I have been losing hope but that helped me. Thanks

aanast -- I really liked this link and think it parallels what Harley prescribes in plan A. Thank you for posting this.

yeah, as I said this was helpful for me getting my act together after the initial panic of finding out my WW had feelings for someone else and wanted out.

I had all kinds of anger, impatience, LB, threatening divorce and threatening to have an A of my own. All kinds of things one day and then changing the next.

When I found that site, it was a wakeup call on how to act since I knew deep down that, despite what I said, I wanted my M to work. I've tried to be consistent ever since.

It definately helped me.

Hopefully it can help others too.

<small>[ November 23, 2002, 08:16 AM: Message edited by: aanast2 ]</small>