Tips on reading a book together? - 01/07/04 02:01 PM
Hi, all,
After a false recovery, H and I are focusing on rolling up our sleeves and doing the hard work necessary to see if we can attain the marriage we (I) want.
He has agreed to read a book or two with me and the first book I want us to read is "Fall in Love, Stay in Love" because it covers emotional needs (my top 2 aren't being met right now), love busters (we're both guilty of these and need to provide one another with a safe environment), and POJA. I think it will give us a good foundation from which to explore our issues. Also the questionnaires will give me something concrete to refer to, and I like the "solid" feeling of that right now.
So, my question is: Have any of you read books as a couple, and what did you find most effective? Do you agree to have a chapter read by a certain day and then sit down and discuss it? Do you get two copies of the book or do you share the one? Do you take turns reading aloud to one another? What has worked, and what hasn't?
Thanks!
After a false recovery, H and I are focusing on rolling up our sleeves and doing the hard work necessary to see if we can attain the marriage we (I) want.
He has agreed to read a book or two with me and the first book I want us to read is "Fall in Love, Stay in Love" because it covers emotional needs (my top 2 aren't being met right now), love busters (we're both guilty of these and need to provide one another with a safe environment), and POJA. I think it will give us a good foundation from which to explore our issues. Also the questionnaires will give me something concrete to refer to, and I like the "solid" feeling of that right now.
So, my question is: Have any of you read books as a couple, and what did you find most effective? Do you agree to have a chapter read by a certain day and then sit down and discuss it? Do you get two copies of the book or do you share the one? Do you take turns reading aloud to one another? What has worked, and what hasn't?
Thanks!