When my husband was going through the fog he said the following things about OW:
-She did everything a woman could do for a man. When I wasn't feeling good she phoned all the doctors she could think of.
(I was doing the back-rubbing, I was bringing him pain-killers, I was filling the hot-water bottel and I was accepting hardly any sex because of his pain. He refused to go to the doctor when I requested him to)
-OW saved all of her money and hardly spent any. This really impressed my husband! DUH..........she didn't even work and she was spending all of OWH money!!!!!
All the expensive gifts she gave to my husband were paid by her husband.
-OW let her husband do what he wanted to. She never pressured him at all. My husband was really impressed about this.
Gosh, when OWH was gone, she was together with my husband!
-OW didn't ask him any questions.........
-OW spoiled him with very expensive and exclusive meals.
(Gosh, her husband owns a "Exclusive Food" Business)
-OW worked for others without getting paid because she was kind-hearted. (OWH has $$$$$$$$$$$$$$) So she didn't have to earn any money.
-OW was always very kind-hearted. She was a great listener and she didn't yell or ever appear violent.
(OWH had to call the police because OW freaked out" She tryed to stab OWH with a knife and she whipped him with strap, she was screaming so loud that all the neighbours were there to see) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
-OW invested all her free-time caring for her horse.(5-6 hours a day) This really impressed my husband because horses are "our" hobby and way of life.
My husband told me I just wasn't able to do that because I was not deciplined enough.
(gosh, I had 2 kids (17 & 20) who thought they were in their 30's) I had a business and I had all the home-chores and shopping to do)
-OW had so much in common, she hated cats like my husband. (she had 13 cats of her own) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
So as you guys can see, OW had so much in common with my husband and she was doing everything a man could dream for.
It turned out to be "fantasy! Complete fantasy.
She was having further affairs and she has emptied her husbands accounts.
She can no longer serve expensive and exclusive meals to any man, neither can she afford to spend hours with the horse she once had. She's going to have to work for the first time in her life.
She's probably in need of the best doctors herself because she has a sexually transmitted stud (I got it from her too <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> )
She will no longer be able to save anyones money because she will need it despritely herself.
Her husband has had enough of her and they are in the middle of a divorce.
I'm happy for "us" that my husband woke up before it was too late.
take care
bb