Marriage Builders
Posted By: top rope attention: 2 Be Us Again - 01/28/05 04:12 PM
2 Be Us Again,

First, my apologizes for not responding to your last post on my last thread.
No excuses, just a lazy [censored] schmuck. Sorry!

However, I do appreciate you taking the time to post. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Thank you.

Next, haven't heard from HW in quite awhile. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

The last time she did communicate she was having MAJOR Problems and Stress from her job. (like "freaking out" & I Quite type)
There was also some issues with an older female family members health.

This was all of course on TOP of attempting to find some way to recover.

She did point out that she herself was "OK" and that she didn't want anyone to worry.
(Like we wouldn't anyway.....)

That's been probably over a month ago.
No, responses since. (So I've just let her have her space.....as that is apparently what she's after).

Hope you are still moving in a positive direction.
I've seen you posting here and there.
Please continue. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Cause Help can come in many forms, persons and ways.

Indeed, You NEVER Know when "your" words, story or experience will touch or shape some one else's life or situation. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

As for me, I'm not reading or posting as much these days.
For "whatever" reason, I'm just not Fitting In as much as I once did.
Heck, I even got jumped on down in the recovery board.
(Not that its that big of an issue......its just that I don't seem to be connecting as I once did.)
Oh well, life marches on!

Guess I'll cut this short and let you know again that I appreciate your thoughts and words.
Take care
Posted By: 2B Us Again Re: attention: 2 Be Us Again - 01/29/05 06:27 AM
Hey you...

It's funny you posted today, because I was going to send you an email and say Hi. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I tried emailing HW a couple of times, but never heard anything back, so like you, I just gave her her space and figured if she wants to contact us, she knows how to get ahold of us. I do hope everything is okay though. Always kind of makes you wonder especially when the pressures are on.

I have been back to the board a little more the last few days. I was popping in once in awhile but needed a "break". Some of the posts have really started my mind turning again, so I'm not sure that is a good thing. But then again, who knows.

I feel I am still moving in a positive direction, only with a few minor set backs here and there. Too be expected I guess. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> With H being on swing shift again, it's been really hard. I guess I have the constant fear of something will happen again. We only see each other for a few minutes in the morning and a little while at night (only if I stay up) but we do have all night Friday together, all day Saturday, and part of sunday. He knows of my concerns and is doing pretty well of trying to ease those.

How have things been with you and your W? I do miss our chats, you always were so good at making me laugh! I do hope all is well with you and your family.

Hugs to you!
LJB
© Marriage BuildersĀ® Forums