Orchid has this in her sig. line. In case some of you haven't clicked on it, I thought I'd post it here.
Trueheart's letter to WS' everywhere

Thanks for posting this Trix. Hope it helps. Trueheart has really helped me. Though at the time, my WS was waaay to foggy to appreciate it, he did read it and in time (a loooong time). it sank in and he eventually came home. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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