Thought I was into recovery - 04/01/06 02:23 PM
Has anyone been in the position where you thought you were well on your way into recovery and then suddenly you slip back?
I am in that hole now, we have been in MC since end of January, I have felt that I was almost recovered, FWW has come a long way since then, (IC before MC). Our last two sessions, our counselor brought up the topic of forgiveness. My W forgave me for not meeting her needs and other things that I have or have not done.
I have not forgiven her yet for her A's, I feel I am not ready since last D-day was Jan. 23. But lately I feel I'm going backwards, my anger is coming back, I find it harder to meet her needs again and becoming more depressed.
Has anyone else been there, what did you do about it?
I am in that hole now, we have been in MC since end of January, I have felt that I was almost recovered, FWW has come a long way since then, (IC before MC). Our last two sessions, our counselor brought up the topic of forgiveness. My W forgave me for not meeting her needs and other things that I have or have not done.
I have not forgiven her yet for her A's, I feel I am not ready since last D-day was Jan. 23. But lately I feel I'm going backwards, my anger is coming back, I find it harder to meet her needs again and becoming more depressed.
Has anyone else been there, what did you do about it?