Ummm...JPH, Clarification Please? - 04/25/06 04:38 AM
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There's a great feature at MB..it's the ignore feature.
To Mimi, Frank, eav, smolina, Mrs W or anyone else who finds my posts unacceptable, use it. -jph
To Mimi, Frank, eav, smolina, Mrs W or anyone else who finds my posts unacceptable, use it. -jph
~emphasis mine
JPH...
I don't have a problem with your posts, nor am I a "jph hater", I'm really not even that familiar with you to be honest...Now, I do stand by what Mr. W posted last night if that is why you chose to name me in the above quote...So, yes, I do think that it is WAY OVER the top to say to any BS...
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No wonder your wife found another -jph
I think that you may even agree that the context does not matter at all when it comes to telling anyone that they deserved to be cheated on...to me, that is even worse than calling a BS "bitter", and I think that that is a pretty low blow...Now, just because I think that your above quote was crossing the line, does not mean that I don't like you or any of the other parts of your posts...I truly have no problem with you at all...I'm sure that you said what you did in anger, and probably also believe it was harsh in hindsight...if not, then that's okay too...we don't have to agree...I can still respect you and even gain from other posts of yours...
The only other reason that I could possibly imagine that you would have named me is because something I said in another post was quoted on "the other thread"...here's that quote...
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*IF* I wasn't a FWW who has seen very clearly what you most certainly have not, and that is...THE GRACE, THE GENTLE STRENGTH, THE SELFLESSNESS, THE LOYALTY, THE HEROISM, THE TRUE AND DEEP LOVE of a BS in Plan A...I have said many times on this site, that I believe that this is the closest match to the love of Christ that a human will ever be able to emulate here... you have NO idea what THAT is like...I've seen it up close...it is VERY REAL in my life...it would AWE you, as it would anyone...Mr. W takes my breath away with the way that he loves me now and with the way he loved me even then...in the face of my very cruel betrayal of him...You have NO IDEA the kind of respect and admiration that I have for him because of the way he did what he did...what my husband did, and what Dazed is doing, IS the very definition of AMAZING GRACE... Mrs. W
Now, I'm not sure how you would think that I was a "jph hater" or any other kind of "hater" based on that...but I would like to clarify just in case...I said that specifically to ONE poster on that thread, because his advice SEEMS to always be "skip Plan A entirely...immediately go to Plan B"...and I know that you don't feel that way, nor do JP or LM to my knowledge(both of whom I do like and respect, btw)...I think that we all agree that Plan A has a time limit...why would there even be a Plan B if that weren't the case, right?
Anyway, JPH, I just wanted to clear that up...I have absolutely no dislike, disrespect or anything negative for you at all...hey, we just got back from Florida today, I haven't even completely read "the other thread"...I'm not even going to, in fact...I just wanted to make sure that "we're cool"...Are we? Feel free to email me if you'd like...
Mrs. W
***HUGE DISCLAIMER***...I did not start this thread to stir up anything at all...I do not wish to argue about ANYTHING...JustUss, please forgive me for even starting this thread, I did not have any other way to contact JPH, and I didn't want any ill feelings floating around, I hope that you will understand...I will certainly understand if you choose to lock this immediately...