ML, how would this relate to a spouse? - 12/27/06 07:53 PM
ML,
You just wrote this on another thread:
For me, I choose to have friends who have similar values as me. I choose friends whom I can RESPECT as decent human beings with character. I would not have a cheater for a friend because I value loyalty and honesty. Someone who demonstrates a lack of loyalty and honesty in their own life will certainly demonstrate that same lack in our friendship if given a chance.
How would you then continue to stay with a WS that has turned into a FWS? How do you just drop the above statement? I'm not calling you out, I'm just asking you and anyone else: If I should not keep cheating or former cheating friends then how do I keep a former cheating spouse?
M2L
You just wrote this on another thread:
For me, I choose to have friends who have similar values as me. I choose friends whom I can RESPECT as decent human beings with character. I would not have a cheater for a friend because I value loyalty and honesty. Someone who demonstrates a lack of loyalty and honesty in their own life will certainly demonstrate that same lack in our friendship if given a chance.
How would you then continue to stay with a WS that has turned into a FWS? How do you just drop the above statement? I'm not calling you out, I'm just asking you and anyone else: If I should not keep cheating or former cheating friends then how do I keep a former cheating spouse?
M2L