Welcome, sorry you’re here. Please keep these tips in mind if you post here:

1.Read the first 4 posts over on Just Found Out

2.Don’t let others (WS or their family)know about this site or the plans used. This is your area for help, venting, bragging and planning.

3.There is no magic pill or words that will change your situation today. It will take time and effort, but it can be done.



These are some areas that I seen lately. Pros please add anything that you feel is needed. I know there is an area of Just Found Out, but many come here first and don't always see the JFO area.

thanks

***this is not directed at anyone, just an over all thing***

you should get this pinned.
also i think new people should tell us:

1. how long they've been married
2. if there is still contact
3. if they have kids
4. how they found out