The Sense of Entitlement is STUNNING - 06/04/07 09:30 PM
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I just want to vent. You do not need to make suggestions or help me deal with it...I got it. Nope, it's not that...I just want to blow off some steam.
You know, as a BS who tries Plan A--then Plan B--and yet your WS is determined and you end up D'ed, you sort of hope that karma pays your exWS a visit, and what goes around comes around. You hope that SOME DAY your exWS "comes to their senses" and maybe realizes that they treated you like dirt and their selfishness was excessive. I think SOME exWS's have that moment...but not my DH's exW!!
She left DH a couple years ago for a fellow graduate-level student. Of course, OP was 12 years younger than her (she's my age)...but he was her "soulmate" (puke) and off she went. Naturally, within a few months he dumped her for a 25yo blonde (like she couldn't have seen that coming) and exWW was too stubborn to admit she was wrong and stop the D. Instead, she hardened her heart and D was finalized.
Since then she has gone through money and men like they are WATER. She drinks every night and smokes the ganj. She almost failed her graduate school (she couldn't pass the Ethics exam--heehee <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> Ironic, huh?), and has flunked the state licensing exam several times! The kids have been with us 100% of the time, she calls them or sees them for a couple hours about once every three months, she doesn't contribute ONE DIME to child support...and she lost her home because she doesn't pay her bills!!!<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />
I mean...she is a LOSER (finger and thumb in the shape of an L on her forehead)!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
Yet every so often, she will do something that just BOGGLES my mind. It's YEARS after the D that SHE wanted and pushed for is finalized...yet just yesterday she called DH at the crack of dawn to wake him up and (get ready)...
... [color:"red"] SHE ASKED HIM TO PAY HER HEAT BILL FOR HER, SO SHE COULD MOVE INTO A NEW HOUSE!!!![/color]
NO Kidding!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />
Can you believe it?? Can you believe the sense of entitlement STILL after all these years. When DH said no and told her he was hanging up and going back to sleep, she had the brass cajones to start YELLING at him that he "owed it to her" that she has had a hard time and it was all HIS fault!! (envision the Exorcist scene with the head spinning around) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
I swear..she's "special." <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> And when she does see the kids once-per-season, she tells them that she will set up her house and they'll be living with her "happily ever after" (yeah...right...in between her social life and her drunken parties....and her men), but what she doesn't get is that the kids are children and they sort of believe her. They WANT to have time with mom!!
Oh she is just NUTZ, I'm telling ya!!!
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Thank you! I feel better <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
FaithfulWifeCJ
I just want to vent. You do not need to make suggestions or help me deal with it...I got it. Nope, it's not that...I just want to blow off some steam.
You know, as a BS who tries Plan A--then Plan B--and yet your WS is determined and you end up D'ed, you sort of hope that karma pays your exWS a visit, and what goes around comes around. You hope that SOME DAY your exWS "comes to their senses" and maybe realizes that they treated you like dirt and their selfishness was excessive. I think SOME exWS's have that moment...but not my DH's exW!!
She left DH a couple years ago for a fellow graduate-level student. Of course, OP was 12 years younger than her (she's my age)...but he was her "soulmate" (puke) and off she went. Naturally, within a few months he dumped her for a 25yo blonde (like she couldn't have seen that coming) and exWW was too stubborn to admit she was wrong and stop the D. Instead, she hardened her heart and D was finalized.
Since then she has gone through money and men like they are WATER. She drinks every night and smokes the ganj. She almost failed her graduate school (she couldn't pass the Ethics exam--heehee <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> Ironic, huh?), and has flunked the state licensing exam several times! The kids have been with us 100% of the time, she calls them or sees them for a couple hours about once every three months, she doesn't contribute ONE DIME to child support...and she lost her home because she doesn't pay her bills!!!<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />
I mean...she is a LOSER (finger and thumb in the shape of an L on her forehead)!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
Yet every so often, she will do something that just BOGGLES my mind. It's YEARS after the D that SHE wanted and pushed for is finalized...yet just yesterday she called DH at the crack of dawn to wake him up and (get ready)...
... [color:"red"] SHE ASKED HIM TO PAY HER HEAT BILL FOR HER, SO SHE COULD MOVE INTO A NEW HOUSE!!!![/color]
NO Kidding!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />
Can you believe it?? Can you believe the sense of entitlement STILL after all these years. When DH said no and told her he was hanging up and going back to sleep, she had the brass cajones to start YELLING at him that he "owed it to her" that she has had a hard time and it was all HIS fault!! (envision the Exorcist scene with the head spinning around) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
I swear..she's "special." <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> And when she does see the kids once-per-season, she tells them that she will set up her house and they'll be living with her "happily ever after" (yeah...right...in between her social life and her drunken parties....and her men), but what she doesn't get is that the kids are children and they sort of believe her. They WANT to have time with mom!!
Oh she is just NUTZ, I'm telling ya!!!
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Thank you! I feel better <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
FaithfulWifeCJ