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Posted By: princessmeggy Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 07:57 PM
Say it ain't so! We haven't lost another vet have we?!?!
Posted By: WhoMe Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 07:59 PM
I was wondering that myself. Maybe she is taking a bit of a holiday.

We all need that from time to time.

Who
Posted By: ILoveMYSELFtoo Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 08:11 PM
MelodyLane has assisted me greatly with a recent issue by helping me to see things from a different viewpoint.
I sure hope she's OK.


~Sally
Posted By: BestAngel Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 08:28 PM

Don't panic everyone, because I am still here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


Cheer up everyone. She's probably taking a break.
Posted By: princessmeggy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 08:39 PM
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Don't panic everyone, because I am still here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

BA, you are a sick and twisted individual. Go away.
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 08:52 PM
BestAngel, BestAdvisor, BestAdvisor1, BestAdvisor2:

Since you’ve seen fit to post on this thread to push people’s buttons. I’d like you to answer the questions I posed to you on an earlier thread, which are below:

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[color:"blue"]BestAngel, BestAdvisor, BestAdvisor1, BestAdvisor2:

There have been several instances of game playing on your part since arriving on MB:

1. Multiple usernames
2. Stealing usernames of well respected posters (Schoolbus to name one)
3. Using the quote feature to capture a vet's (Orchid) cell number where she could no longer delete it

What is different now where we should respect you as a serious and sincere poster? [/color]

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p.s. Princess Meggy: I apologize for the TJ. Please forgive.

Jo
Posted By: BestAngel Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 09:05 PM
Here are my answers:

1) I am sticking with BA.

2) It wasn't "stealing." I gave notice in advanced. In addition, schoolbus made guesses and assumptions about me , meaning facts that were all over the map (obviously mostly not true) and she never apologized for that. My use of schoolbus1 was not sneaky, becaue people knew or will have known very soon.

3) It was meant to be a joke (just like what I posted above)and I was going to delete it right after Orchid realized it.

I've learned that I can't even make a joke in here. I will try not to joke from now on.
Posted By: princessmeggy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 09:07 PM
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p.s. Princess Meggy: I apologize for the TJ. Please forgive.

No problem. Those are good questions that we would all like the answers to but I wouldn't hold your breath. As BA has demonstrated over and over again, the likelihood of BA being honest about anything is practically nil.
Posted By: princessmeggy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 09:20 PM
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Here are my answers:

1) I am sticking with BA.

Which will change daily.

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2) It wasn't "stealing." I gave notice in advanced. In addition, schoolbus made guesses and assumptions about me , meaning facts that were all over the map (obviously mostly not true) and she never apologized for that. My use of schoolbus1 was not sneaky, becaue people knew or will have known very soon.

You gave NO Such notice. You said that you could take her place. You said nothing about STEALING her username and sneakily trying to make people believe that you were her. EVERYTHING she said about you was true.

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3) It was meant to be a joke (just like what I posted above)and I was going to delete it right after Orchid realized it.

Another lie. You didn't delete it until you were called on it.

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I've learned that I can't even make a joke in here. I will try not to joke from now on.

I've yet to see you make one joke. You might try telling the truth about your background so people MIGHT begin to take you seriously.
Posted By: princessmeggy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 09:21 PM
But you know what BA? This thread isn't about you. Please do not post on my threads in the future. Go away.
Posted By: meremortal Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 09:24 PM
BA:

I also asked you some questions in another thread that IMHO you should answer.

I wanted to know why you are posting here, why you came here, how old you are, what connection you have in your life to the topic of adultery?

Are you, or somebody you know, a BS, WS, or OP?

Also, it should have been clear to you way before now that the things you post are not considered funny.

Please show consideration for those posting here because of what they are having to go through.

Have the courtesy to answer the questions and to stop posting in a way that offends.
Posted By: star*fish Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 09:35 PM
Please don't feed the trolls. This is exactly what the "ignore feature" was really designed for. Like affairs need secrecy to thrive, trolls need attention to survive.....any kind of attention. The most effective thing you can do to neutralize (and infuriate) this person....is to act as though he/she is invisible.
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 09:37 PM
Appreciate you chimimg in, SF. But I have my reasons.

Thanks,
Jo
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 09:48 PM
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I've learned that I can't even make a joke in here.

Well Thank God you've learned something here...<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

BA, jokes are amongst FRIENDS...You have done absolutely NOTHING to endear yourself to ANYONE here...How in the world would you think that joking would be appropriate here for you??? Are you seriously that dense??? Good grief!!! Further, joking that you could EVER replace long time valuable members of this board is in really poor taste...I'm not surprised though, poor taste seems to be your forte...

And Starfish, you may handle trolls in any way that you choose...Please respect the right of others to choose for themselves in the matter...Thanks!

Mrs. W
Posted By: committedandlovi Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 09:49 PM
Well..I guess we can expect another Melodylane to show up....sheeeesh. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

committed
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 09:54 PM
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Here are my answers:

1) I am sticking with BA.

2) It wasn't "stealing." I gave notice in advanced. In addition, schoolbus made guesses and assumptions about me , meaning facts that were all over the map (obviously mostly not true) and she never apologized for that. My use of schoolbus1 was not sneaky, becaue people knew or will have known very soon.

3) It was meant to be a joke (just like what I posted above)and I was going to delete it right after Orchid realized it.

I've learned that I can't even make a joke in here. I will try not to joke from now on.

Thank you for responding, BA.

I'm encouraged to know you understand the cyber game playing you attempted is inappropriate on this forum. The infidelity boards, GQII and the OC board in particular, are full of hurt and pain. We need members that will lift up other members and assist them in understanding and using the Harley's principles.

If you haven't already, I would strongly advise you read the forum articles by the Harley's to understand those methods and principles.

If you want to play cyber games, there are plenty of chat rooms and other BB created specifically for that type of entertainment.

God Bless,
Jo
Posted By: medc Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 09:54 PM
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And Starfish, you may handle trolls in any way that you choose...Please respect the right of others to choose for themselves in the matter...Thanks!


agreed.
Posted By: 2long Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:00 PM
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Don't panic everyone, because I am still here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


Cheer up everyone. She's probably taking a break.

Did your mom say it was okay for you 2 use her computer?

-ol' 2long
Posted By: medc Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:01 PM
now THAT was funny!
Posted By: princessmeggy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:12 PM
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Well..I guess we can expect another Melodylane to show up....sheeeesh. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

committed

That is TOO funny because that's exactly what I was thinking was next on the agenda.
Posted By: princessmeggy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:15 PM
What would be even funnier is if we had another MEDC show up. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:18 PM
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What would be even funnier is if we had another MEDC show up. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

LMAO!!! Now if only *I* would have thought of that on the day he changed his name to I_AM_BATMAN!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:19 PM
My best guess regarding Mel's absence is she is busy with Christmas stuff.

I'm sure she will be back soon. We need her here, and she loves helping people survive and recover from adultery. She is in large part, responsible for sooooo many recoveries.

Jo
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:22 PM
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My best guess regarding Mel's absence is she is busy with Christmas stuff.

I'm sure she will be back soon. We need her here, and she loves helping people survive and recover from adultery. She is in part, responsible for sooooo many recoveries.

Jo

Agree-Plus I heard a rumor that she got a litter of kittens as an early Christmas gift, to use for target practice of course! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I miss her tons! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/teary.gif" alt="" /> I hope she will be back soon!

Mrs. W
Posted By: medc Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:22 PM
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LMAO!!! Now if only *I* would have thought of that on the day he changed his name to I_AM_BATMAN!!!

Mrs. W


I would have come lookin for you! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:29 PM
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LMAO!!! Now if only *I* would have thought of that on the day he changed his name to I_AM_BATMAN!!!

Mrs. W


I would have come lookin for you! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

GULP...Maybe it's best that that "cracker jack" idea didn't come to me at the time! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W
Posted By: 2long Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:41 PM
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And Starfish, you may handle trolls in any way that you choose...Please respect the right of others to choose for themselves in the matter...Thanks!


agreed.

Allow me 2 point out an interesting tidbit that I noted on another thread yes2rday:

BA isn't posting on loveshack at the moment, at least not as frequently as she/he/it/them/those had been not long ago when I last looked.

she/he/it/them/those is/are getting their particular form of nourishment - attention, high drama - right here on good ol' MB.

So, Star has a very valid point.

Deprive the sparkly light thingy in the Enterprise of what it needs 2 survive, and maybe it'll slip sideways through a bulkhead and go bother the Klingons or some other drama-filled lifeform's starship.

years ago, I was a member of a forum devoted 2 VW campers. We had a troll show up, claiming all kinds of engineering degrees and mechanic's experience. At best, he had some so-so suggestions about common problems we were dealing with. But it was pretty clear early on that he didn't have the experience he claimed. What he did have was a knack for getting long-time list members all a'flutter over what 2 do with his "advice". The more we argued, the more he posted.

When I asked him the same question I asked BA above, he disappeared.

-ol' 2long
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:48 PM
Back to the original subject of MelodyLane's whereabouts.

I sure hope if she is taking a break to Christmas shop, etc., that she got MY list.

Isn't Dillard's in Texas? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />

Jo
Posted By: princessmeggy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:49 PM
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Isn't Dillard's in Texas?

Heck, we've got Dillards, Neiman Marcus, Penneys, and a bunch of the big players. It's just a short horseback ride to get to any of 'em.
Posted By: 2long Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:52 PM
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Isn't Dillard's in Texas? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />

Jo

No, they're called "Dullard's" in Baja Oklahoma!

Now, if making fun of her home country doesn't get her 2 post, nothing will!

-ol' 2long <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:55 PM
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Back to the original subject of MelodyLane's whereabouts.

I sure hope if she is taking a break to Christmas shop, etc., that she got MY list.

Isn't Dillard's in Texas? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />

Jo

For real Jo, she's only 4 more shopping days left and my list was REALLY long and 'spensive too! She better be burnin' up Mr. Mel's credit cards! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I'm sending her a flat iron and some soft hold hairspray! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:56 PM
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Isn't Dillard's in Texas? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />

Jo

No, they're called "Dullard's" in Baja Oklahoma!

Now, if making fun of her home country doesn't get her 2 post, nothing will!

-ol' 2long <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Har har ....

Yeah, not to mention they need to ship some ceramic flat irons to the stores in Texas. I swear looking at Texas women's hair, there must be a severe shortage.
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 10:59 PM
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Now, if making fun of her home country doesn't get her 2 post, nothing will!

Good Point! That just might work...Let's talk some smack!

TEXAS SUCKS!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Wonder what her ETA is now?

Mrs. W

P.S. Sorry PM, you're gonna hafta take one for the team! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:04 PM
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I'm sending her a flat iron and some soft hold hairspray!

Thats more of an intervention than it is a Christmas present.


LMAO!
Posted By: ba109 Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:13 PM
Didn't Mel suggest something along the lines of leaving this site to the trolls?

I hope the door didn't hit her in the [censored] on the way out. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: Nerlycrzy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:14 PM
I heard she had a Texas Christmas tree---- a huge Texas tumbleweed spray painted white. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

Is that true???? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:23 PM
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I heard she had a Texas Christmas tree---- a huge Texas tumbleweed spray painted white.

LOL

Yeap, I also heard they decorated it with pistolas and machine guns, all shiney and new.

Noel, noel .....
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:24 PM
An Intervention!!! BWAHAHAHAHAAAA Jo!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

That sounds right to me AlreadyCrazy! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I'll bet she is just real busy ironin' her jeans...Which is DENIM TORTURE, btw!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:25 PM
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Didn't Mel suggest something along the lines of leaving this site to the trolls?

I hope the door didn't hit her in the [censored] on the way out.

If this doesn't get her to post, nuttin will.
Posted By: maggiemagster Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:26 PM
Maybe some rabid jack-a-lopes got her!
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:27 PM
Maybe she ran outta Midol .... again.

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:27 PM
She could be out killin' Christmas din din right now in her big ole Jeep...Roadkill Delight is a Texas fave I hear! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W
Posted By: ba109 Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:27 PM
Mel,

Try some of THIS on your next troll. Guaranteed to work. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:29 PM
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Maybe some rabid jack-a-lopes got her!

What the hale is a "Jack-a-lope"???

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: 2long Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:31 PM
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jackalope
Posted By: committedandlovi Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:32 PM
ROFLMAO

committed
Posted By: chrisner Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:34 PM
Jack-a-Lope

(They are mostly in Wyoming)
Posted By: Nerlycrzy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:35 PM
Or maybe MrLane put his foot down and said "Mel. ENOUGH saving newbies!! I need some Christmas cookies & candy!!"

And Mel, scurried off into the kitchen, donning her favorite apron, and is whipping up some homemade fudge as we post. Huh?? Maybe?? No?????????
Posted By: 2long Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:36 PM
Perhaps she's on a snipe hunt.

Or, trying 2 find a left hand-threaded framus reamer for the mufler bearing on her pickup.

-ol' 2long
Posted By: medc Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:43 PM
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Let me get this straight. You were stalking newcomers on our board, impersonating a VET, and busily changing your screen name daily so you could evade a BAN, showing complete lack of respect for the board, and you have the NERVE to complain that you were "attacked?"

You know, I just wonder if this board should not be LEFT TO the trolls, since they are held in such high regard here at the expense of board members? They are certainly treated better than the ones who object to their trolling. NO WONDER YOU FEEL SO EMBOLDENED. Where are the troll defenders now?


Mel's last post before she left. Yikes.

Come back Mel, i will send you a can of hairnet!
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:46 PM
Oh Lordy...

Mel would NEVER snipe hunt that is only for silly yankees for goodness sake! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

And MEDC..."hairnet"...It's AQUANET dude!

YANKEE MEN!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:47 PM
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Come back Mel, i will send you a can of hairnet!

I think she uses aerosol super glue, I'm Batman.

Posted By: Nerlycrzy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:52 PM
Jo, I think she mentioned she bought it at Home Depot.

Can of Laquer spray varnish,,,Glossy, of course! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/20/07 11:55 PM
Mel in a HAIRNET!!! The visual is hilarious!!! Thanks MEDC! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W
Posted By: mimi_here Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 12:56 AM
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a can of hairnet!


LMAO..maybe that could be patented....
Posted By: bigkahuna Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 04:10 AM
She's still under the bus where you threw her Mimi.
Posted By: Orchid Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 06:25 AM
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BA: Don't panic everyone, because I am still here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


Cheer up everyone. She's probably taking a break.

Orchid: She probably is. Can anyone really blame her? This boards been a bit toxic of late. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

You know BA, for some silly reason your posts tend to bring out the terror in some. Do you know why?

Think about it and then I have another question 4 u.


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BA: Here are my answers:

1) I am sticking with BA.

Orchid: So does this mean you have abandoned the trend of creating different user names and will stick to BestAngel or BestAdvisor come what may? Btw, which one will it be?


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BA: 2) It wasn't "stealing." I gave notice in advanced. In addition, schoolbus made guesses and assumptions about me , meaning facts that were all over the map (obviously mostly not true) and she never apologized for that. My use of schoolbus1 was not sneaky, becaue people knew or will have known very soon.

Orchid: Maybe not stealing but it did cause an uproar. I mean really.... did you mean it as a way to get back at Schoolbus for what was posted to you? Is that the way you handle stuff?


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BA: 3) It was meant to be a joke (just like what I posted above)and I was going to delete it right after Orchid realized it.

Orchid: Ok, but in reality you realize it wasn't a very good joke. Btw, what did you want me to realize? You lost me there.


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BA: I've learned that I can't even make a joke in here. I will try not to joke from now on.

Orchid: Sad but kinda true. So tell me how do you plan to rebuild trust in you? What are you willing to share or work on to show you are truly interested in improving yourself?


Btw, I know my posts will irk some and stress others. I ask questions for a good reason. Don't go jumping on me like before. If you can't handle my questions, then put me on ignore. It's that simple. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

L.
Posted By: Orchid Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 06:30 AM
Princess,

You ask a good question. Mel has been on board for a long time. Her posts are valuable but we must remember she is here on a voluntary basis.

I am not privy to her current status but can understand if she needs a rest.

Mel will begin posting when she is ready. We can't expect more than that.

What we can do in the interim is put into practice the good kind of posting Mel has done. So maybe we ought to emphasize on what about Mel's posts have helped us? Then maybe we can keep Mel's furvor alive. I am sure she would be pleasantly surprised if she saw some of us improve by putting her good skills into practice. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I advocate take the good and throw out the bad in many instances. We all have good and sometimes bad or not worthy types of posting.

Let's focus on the good and how we can spread it around to help others. Isn't that what good support is all about? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

JMHO,
L.
Posted By: BestAngel Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 06:52 AM
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Btw, what did you want me to realize? You lost me there.

Basically once you realize that I quoted your info, I would automatically take it off. I said "how are you" or something just to throw you off for a temporary basis and was hoping you would respond to that and THEN immediately REALIZE what I did. But, I had the intention to take it off right after you realize what I was doing and NO intention of leaving your information there for long. Now, I realize it wasn't perceived as funny like my post above.


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Sad but kinda true. So tell me how do you plan to rebuild trust in you?

Like many posters have said about their WS: "words means nothting to me, only action matters." So, I guess only time will tell.

By the way, thank you for not being nasty to me like many others do.

p.s. I won't post on this particular thread again.
Posted By: aptiva Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 01:32 PM
some people don`t get...... what they just don`t get
Posted By: princessmeggy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 02:38 PM
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Princess,

You ask a good question. Mel has been on board for a long time. Her posts are valuable but we must remember she is here on a voluntary basis.

I am not privy to her current status but can understand if she needs a rest.

Mel will begin posting when she is ready. We can't expect more than that.

What we can do in the interim is put into practice the good kind of posting Mel has done. So maybe we ought to emphasize on what about Mel's posts have helped us? Then maybe we can keep Mel's furvor alive. I am sure she would be pleasantly surprised if she saw some of us improve by putting her good skills into practice. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I advocate take the good and throw out the bad in many instances. We all have good and sometimes bad or not worthy types of posting.

Let's focus on the good and how we can spread it around to help others. Isn't that what good support is all about? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

JMHO,
L.

Huh?
Posted By: _Ace_ Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 02:41 PM
Mel took an unannounced break right after Pep left, remember? I hope she's just busy at work....or maybe she's off in Melodyland!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> (That's what I accidentally called her when she helped me after I misquoted Weaver/BobP/WAT way back when.)

Miss ya Mel....even if ya thought I was a guy when I first registered. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> (Hey, another poster thought I was a guy and propositioned me last summer....remember that FH?) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

Ace
Posted By: maggiemagster Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 02:49 PM
Hey Ace,

I just gotta tell you, every time I read your name on the forums I start singing your name to the tune of "brass in pocket" by the pretenders...

"I got Ace, in bucket..."

I'm a little...different <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: _Ace_ Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 03:00 PM
Thanks for the melody, maggiemagster.

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I'm a little...different <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

We're all different, which is what Orchid may be saying, PM.

Ace
Posted By: princessmeggy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 03:13 PM
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We're all different, which is what Orchid may be saying, PM.

Oh, I get that. I was just confused about to what Orchid was responding. I only asked about ML because I DO wonder where she is and I DO miss her colorful posts. She's a tell-it-like-it-is kinda person and I respect that. Another reason I was wondering is because there have been a couple of new posters in the last couple of days that I believe she could really help.

We ARE all different. I've always been accused of marching to my own drummer. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: Orchid Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 06:07 PM
Princess,

Sorry for the confusion. The question I was referring to was your title of your thread asking: Where is MelodyLane? I should have presented it in a more clear manner. I apologize.

I certainly understand your concern. Mel has been invaluable to this board. We may not always agree on everything but I do respect her input. Even when it is directed what might appear t/b against me.... I try to look at things from her angle and pull out the valid points. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Both Mel and BR were very good at helping those coping with alcohol and A addictions. It would be sad to lose both of them. Still we must trudge on.

Now you mentioned some new posters need some help? Would you be able to post who they are so those of us that are here may be able to assist?

L.
Posted By: weaver Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/21/07 06:53 PM
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(Hey, another poster thought I was a guy and propositioned me last summer....remember that FH?)


Get outta here, Ace! You mean he thought your were a guy and he was a guy and he was hitting on you? On Marriage Builders?

And I missed IT? Dayamn! Was he MARRIED to boot?
Posted By: tucktummy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/22/07 02:00 AM
I had a break once but don't recall a "Where is Tummytuck?" thread. Feeling a bit miffed about that.
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/22/07 02:10 AM
Missing you Mel, where ever you are.

Lv,
Jo
Posted By: Ozdreamer Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/22/07 02:23 AM
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/22/07 02:51 AM
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OZDreamer,

You just earned yourself a permanent IGNORE.

I would suggest you seek help for your anger and jealousy issues.

God Bless,
Jo
Posted By: _Larry_ Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/22/07 05:26 AM

Just about everyone can catch "Burnout." She did a lot of good. Hope she comes back.

Larry
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/22/07 07:25 PM
Agree Larrs. Me too.
Posted By: _Ace_ Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/22/07 07:53 PM
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(Hey, another poster thought I was a guy and propositioned me last summer....remember that FH?)

Ace

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Get outta here, Ace! You mean he thought your were a guy and he was a guy and he was hitting on you? On Marriage Builders?

And I missed IT? Dayamn! Was he MARRIED to boot?

I guess I should re-phrase that, Jose.....actually he did hit on me (asked where I lived and then said he wanted to take me out for a drink) and when FH blasted him, he backtracked and claimed he thought I was a guy.

So that SHOULD HAVE read "remember when I got propositioned, but then the poster claimed to have thought I was a guy to avoid the blasting he got from FH?"

But back to the original thread question...it's been a week now and I hope Mel's OK. What if she's been involved in something health-wise that keeps her from posting.....have any who email her been in touch or heard from her lately?

If she has decided to leave the boards, it seems that she would at least let us know. Or did she?

Ace

PS I'm hitting submit before checking to see if Mel has posted elsewhere....if she/you have, that's great! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: Neak Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/23/07 12:01 AM
At least you know if she ever changed her name, we'd still all recognize her. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/23/07 03:33 AM
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At least you know if she ever changed her name, we'd still all recognize her. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Yeap, she'd be the only female poster packing a pistola.
Posted By: Lady_Clueless Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/23/07 03:56 AM
I heard a rumor that Mel is moonlighting....going around shooting cats out of Christmas trees. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: Mark1952 Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/23/07 03:57 AM
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At least you know if she ever changed her name, we'd still all recognize her.
The big hair would be a clue anyway...
Posted By: Neak Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/23/07 04:36 AM
Texas Christmas Carols

Four falling birds
Three trenched friends
Two turkey shoots
And a cartridge in a pear tree.......
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/23/07 05:14 AM
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Texas Christmas Carols

Four falling birds
Three trenched friends
Two turkey shoots
And a cartridge in a pear tree.......

That is hilarious, Neakster. LOL

I'm <Snortin> on Mel's behalf.
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/23/07 05:38 AM
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And a cartridge in a pear tree.......

A tree in Texas??? Now I've heard everything! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/23/07 05:40 AM
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And a cartridge in a pear tree.......

A tree in Texas??? Now I've heard everything! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W

LMAO! No sheet.
Posted By: Neak Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/23/07 05:59 AM
It sounds catchier than a partridge in a pear tumbleweed...
Posted By: cinderella Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/23/07 06:10 AM
Twelve Days of Christmas Cats by Don Daily

On the 12th day of Christmas, my true love gave to me - - - -

12 dapper dancers
11 panthers prancing
10 lovely lynxes\
9 lounging leopards
8 marvelous manxes
7 Siamese singing
6 Persians playing
5 golden kings (lions)
4 calico kittens
3 friendly felines
2 tawny tabbies
and a kitten in a fir tree
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/23/07 09:00 PM
LOL Cinderella.
Posted By: cinderella Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/24/07 04:10 AM
That is such a fun book.

The Jack Daniel's Silver Cornet Band has a Twelve Days of Tennessee Christmas. I'll post that when I find it.
Posted By: princessmeggy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/26/07 01:22 PM
Bumping cause I still wanna know... (and I can't wait for ML to read all the sweet Texas comments) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: lake53 Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/26/07 08:24 PM
She's probably just vacationing in a part of the U.S. that has better climate and more interesting terrain. She is probably cross country skiing in the adirondacks, or some even nicer part of upstate New York <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: medc Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/26/07 08:46 PM
All joking aside..Mel is obviously had enough of dealing with trolls, enablers and apologists. So, instead of Mel, we get a few old-timers that couldn't possibly hold her can of AquaNet(see Mrs. W I learned!).

I would like to put out a plea for Mel to return to the boards and bring back some Texas style bluntness and experience combined in a way that is unique to her.

Mel....Hey, Yo..Mel! Come back! Between you being gone and Mrs. W being on vacation I feel lonely out here! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/26/07 10:04 PM
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Mrs. W being on vacation

LOL! I'm here, kinda, just "down home" in Atlanta and spending time with my mom, my brother, and of course, Mr. W and our DD8...I just came to check in during a "Wii Break"...I have some "Wii Injuries" if you can believe it! This tells me that I am GRAVELY out of shape! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> So far I've pulled a hamstring while "Wii Bowling" and I also have a pretty painful case of "Wii Boogie Arm"! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> We are having tons of FUN though! I'll be around more after the holidays! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

On a more serious note, it is true that Mel has chosen to leave...Selfishly, I pray that she changes her mind and this is just an extended and well deserved break...I feel very blessed that I still communicate with her in real life...I count her as one of my dearest friends...

Mrs. W
Posted By: sexymamabear Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/26/07 10:08 PM
Mel,

You've seen me through these last 9 months. And you were right on all the way through. Don't leave me now...

Surely you know how much you are needed and wanted here.

I sure am hoping to hear from you around here again! I'll be updating my thread in Jan. Would love to see you there.
Posted By: princessmeggy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/27/07 03:34 PM
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On a more serious note, it is true that Mel has chosen to leave...Selfishly, I pray that she changes her mind and this is just an extended and well deserved break...I feel very blessed that I still communicate with her in real life...I count her as one of my dearest friends...

Dang. That's what I was afraid of. I understand her frustration though. Heck, I've only been here a year and I've thought of going away because I just don't get the kid-gloves when it comes to KNOWN trolls and scalawags.

But you know what. MB is under attack because the enemy recognizes that it is a marvelous tool for restoring families. The enemy's number one goal is to destroy families. If he can do that, then he's got us all licked. But he uses the same old bag of tricks everywhere and it should be so obvious... nips and bites... in the form of troll and scalawags. He does the same thing in churches... nips and bites in the form of gossips, hypocrites, backbiters, etc.

I just wish MB would recognize it for what it is. HARM to those who truly want and need help. And now we're losing some of our best vets because of it.
Posted By: _Ace_ Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/27/07 04:02 PM
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I just wish MB would recognize it for what it is. HARM to those who truly want and need help. And now we're losing some of our best vets because of it.

In our rookieness, PM, we may not have seen the cycles like others have. It was said when JL 'left' that we must respect his choices to take a break (long or short) and he has been posting again occasionally....even as recently as last night. Helping others appears to be inherent for JL and he said he was touched by our farewell messages.

I agree with some of your points, PM but chose to think that our Veteran MB posters are above the control of trolls and our own bickering with each other. As I've noticed on the ancient ('seasoned' or as K called himself 'overbaked') MB Vets Reunion thread, this place is both perfume and poison, depending on one's perspective...and that POV changes often.

I took a break a week after I registered and nearly did not come back. I recently discovered that speculations about my reasons for taking a break caused a mini-furor over 10 months later. By the time I found out, (quite by accident I might add...and I don't even remember the thread now) it had blown over and the thread has since slid into oblivion...I think.

Mel helped me tremendously (even if she mis-gendered me) and I will always be grateful. I trust that she will be back because being helpful is inherent in her nature like JL's. But if not, that is her choice and I will respect it, even if it makes me sad. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/teary.gif" alt="" />

Ace

P.S. Mel....are you helping Charlotte overbake those holiday goodies she mentioned before she disappeared? LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: princessmeggy Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/31/07 08:33 PM
ML, you're back! Thought I'd bump this thread for you so you can read how hard some people tried to call you out while you were gone. Some of it's pretty funny. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: MelodyLane Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/31/07 08:36 PM
Oh Lord help me, I can just imagine the wiseass stuff in here! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I will wade through it when I get back from my motorcycle ride down to the coast. thanks for worrying about me, friend. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: MrsWondering Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/31/07 08:36 PM
HOORAY MEL'S BACK!!!

Texas still sucks though! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W
Posted By: Neak Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 12/31/07 08:38 PM
Lotsa cats, so hurry! You wouldn't believe what we, uh I mean THEY were saying!!!

Excuse me, I think I have to go edit a few posts now that you're back. What I mean is, I'm so glad you're back!

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 01/01/08 02:16 AM
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Oh Lord help me, I can just imagine the wiseass stuff in here! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I will wade through it when I get back from my motorcycle ride down to the coast. thanks for worrying about me, friend. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Welcome back, Miss Melly. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Posted By: Resilient Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 01/01/08 02:18 AM
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HOORAY MEL'S BACK!!!

Texas still sucks though! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W

Texas doesn't suck. It BLOWS! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: MelodyLane Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 01/01/08 02:39 AM
Thanks Resilient! Its alright, I have come to accept yore yankee jealousy of Texas. If I was a silly yankee I would be jealous too! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

ba109 wrote:
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Didn't Mel suggest something along the lines of leaving this site to the trolls?

I hope the door didn't hit her in the [censored] on the way out. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

You sorryass cheesehead yankee!! I didn't even do the drama queen and ya still got your lick in! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

PrincessMeggy, I can't believe you let these yankees TRASH TALK Texas in here!! Couldn't ya control these carpetbaggers? Justuss will NOT BE HAPPY with all this Texas BLASPHEMY!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

And you silly people that have cats: GET A REAL PET, PEOPLE!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />


MEDC, you are a peach, friend. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: GodBlessTexas "longtime lurker" here ..... - 01/01/08 02:45 AM
I agree with everything that smart MelodyLane says, especially the part about yankees and CATS! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: ba109 Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 01/01/08 03:17 AM
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You sorryass cheesehead yankee!! I didn't even do the drama queen and ya still got your lick in!

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> How the hellRya Mel? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Merry postChristmas and Happy New Year to you, ya crazy Texan!
Posted By: MelodyLane Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 01/01/08 03:24 AM
kiss my heiny, ba109!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

and Merry Christmas to you too!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: ForeverHers Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 01/01/08 06:14 AM
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Posted By: ForeverHers Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 01/01/08 03:08 PM
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Two can play your game, MEDC


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Posted By: top rope Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 01/01/08 03:25 PM
ML,
In the future
when you desire a Needed Break
Perhaps
create a thread
where you can spout off
about your coming Departure
thereby
gaining much wanted
attention
adulation
&
fan fair

(Then show back up in a day or 3). heee, heee, he <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Odd how that seems to be the cycle for some though, huh? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

Oh yea,
CATS Rule <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

&

Dogs .....well, they're OK too! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Fish .......not so much. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
At least not for me (sorry aquarium owners). <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/ooo.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: MelodyLane Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 01/01/08 03:53 PM
hey, that sounds like a fun game, toprope!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

CATS! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
Posted By: ba109 Re: Where is MelodyLane? - 01/01/08 04:02 PM
Dogs Rule, Cats Drool! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

and don't diss my Fish. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />
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