link to signs of Emotional Affair - 03/12/08 04:17 PM
Hello all:
After 2 years of denial, I think maybe I might be making progress. My husband claims that his "very close, dear friend" at work was NOT having an emotional affair with him. I might add that she is a 35 year old divorcee who just thought the WORLD of my husband.
I know there is there a link to a list of signs to look out for. Any information on the destructiveness EA's would be helpful too.
I mean- there has been no "traditional affair" - he'd NEVER do that- <wink>- but I have kept reading this site for two years because things just SOUNDED right- for some reason:
A#1. He kept saying things like: "I have built a WALL around my heart." Just hurtful things that you can't defend yourself against.
#2. I have learned that BS often blame you for things they are guilty of. He has acused me of workplace connections.
How many people start EA's without realizing what they are doing?
I would like a link to some more information. I think if he read it from some other source he might be convinced.
What a shame to do this to a decent family...
After 2 years of denial, I think maybe I might be making progress. My husband claims that his "very close, dear friend" at work was NOT having an emotional affair with him. I might add that she is a 35 year old divorcee who just thought the WORLD of my husband.
I know there is there a link to a list of signs to look out for. Any information on the destructiveness EA's would be helpful too.
I mean- there has been no "traditional affair" - he'd NEVER do that- <wink>- but I have kept reading this site for two years because things just SOUNDED right- for some reason:
A#1. He kept saying things like: "I have built a WALL around my heart." Just hurtful things that you can't defend yourself against.
#2. I have learned that BS often blame you for things they are guilty of. He has acused me of workplace connections.
How many people start EA's without realizing what they are doing?
I would like a link to some more information. I think if he read it from some other source he might be convinced.
What a shame to do this to a decent family...