3%: A question/dilemma/ummmm.... - 05/05/09 01:17 PM
The Paul Newman thread brought this back up (kinda like GERD) for me again.
Recently, I found out that my Most Favorite Aunt in the Entire World's M is actually an affairage.
Okay.
We all know how I feel about that, right?
I never knew. Till I found out that her first H had passed recently, and I asked if our family had sent anything to his (I barely remember him). My mother said that it wouldn't be seemly to send anything and then spilled it.
I love this woman and her husband - like, second momma and daddy love them. They lifted me and my children up and took care of us during the Wookie's infidelity. They love my children - all of my children. They delight in my family because it is THEIR family too.
And now I am torn because I know that these two people have caused the SAME pain in others that the Wookie and VD caused in our family.
OUCH. How do I deal with this?
Recently, I found out that my Most Favorite Aunt in the Entire World's M is actually an affairage.
Okay.
We all know how I feel about that, right?
I never knew. Till I found out that her first H had passed recently, and I asked if our family had sent anything to his (I barely remember him). My mother said that it wouldn't be seemly to send anything and then spilled it.
I love this woman and her husband - like, second momma and daddy love them. They lifted me and my children up and took care of us during the Wookie's infidelity. They love my children - all of my children. They delight in my family because it is THEIR family too.
And now I am torn because I know that these two people have caused the SAME pain in others that the Wookie and VD caused in our family.
OUCH. How do I deal with this?