Lately, my H, the WS, has been wearing his HS ring again. He says he likes it and he trys to wear it when it matches his outfit. Now, the OP was an old HS friend and sometimes I feel like even though he says he has broken off communications with her, he is wearing the ring as a "reminder." <P>Now, am I just way off the deep end? Do I say something? If so, how do I say something without LBing? It really hurts me when he wears that, but I don't want to cause more problems and I don't want him to get defensive. He still doesn't want to be married to be and would still prefer her company. Would saying something just make things worsse?

Hi Lapeine,<P>I think maybe you should just let it go for a while, until things are bit better between the two of you.<P>Maybe he is using it as a reminder, not of her, but of simpler times in his life, maybe even the affair was a longing for a previous time.<P>Take care.