Is there anyone else out there that was a virgin before they met their spouse? If so, was your spouse also a virgin? If not, how did you deal with the fact that your spouse has been with someone else?

I was. He was not. We have been divorced for a couple of years. <P>How did I cope. Well, we were young, 18 and 19, when we met. So I think there was probably only 1 other person in his past. Could have been 2. I didn't let it bother me too much.<P>Over the summer I met someone who had apparently been rather prolific - at least by my standards - and that was harder to deal with. And the relationship is over and I'm still bothered a bit. Feel like I let myself down.

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