What does your WS's OP look like?? Good time to Vent

Just thought I'd pose the question not to rub salt but rather let anyone rant about the other person. I found out my WS's OM is overweight, balding, lazy, cheap-as*, doper, loser guy. She admitted last night when she decided his time was up that they could never go forward because she would be embarrassed to bring him around friends and family. Sheesh. I guess I always thought if your were gonna be with someone other than your spouse, at least they would be attractive. Just goes to show the importance of the EN's--Feel free to rant and rave, slam the OP, get it all out. Peachy in GA has provided probably the most laughable description I've ever heard--"The silicone injected, drug-pushin' Monkey HO--Have a Great Weekend!! [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img]

Lets see... to be sincere I give OW so little attention I can't even remember exactly how she looks, for what I can remember I only saw her photo twice, and her face was so average I would forget how she looked the moment I turned away. Awfull hair, filthy style, and looked like she was smelling dog poop all the time, lolFor what people tell me she was not pretty, not even cute, very petty, cheap, stupid (didn't know where Canada or Mexico where), and slept with every other man that was willing to pay for dinner. She has no friends, she is slightly psycho-schizophrenic (runs in the family), nobody likes her, and if she was to die tomorrow nobody would care and she wouldn't be missed.Yup, I know it sounds like I am exagerating, but believe me I feel pitty for this poor creature, (just after some anger for hurting my WH before I even met him and doing awfull things to him, not for hurting me, that was my WH doing mind you).So I am pretty happy to say... I am much better than she is, yeah, not the best person on Earth, not close to perfect, but oh boy am I light years from falling soooo low.Oh also, she is 10 years older than me, she has nobody (or she didn't last time we ever heard about her, 2 years ago), she was acting desperate clingy and needy, she isn't getting any younger, and no man will want her being the b*itchy person everybody says she is (everybody as her "friends", relatives, etc etc).[ January 04, 2002: Message edited by: Alostwife ]

OM looks like the south end of a north-bound horse - and I'm not saying that just to be nice. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] At least he's stupid, too. His VCR flashes 12:00.WAT[ January 04, 2002: Message edited by: worthatry ]

I have never seen her. I asked my H for a description once. He said "Ditzy, immature, not very smart and has fat arms." One of my friends met her in a bar. Due to the OW having an unusual name and details my friend knew about her from me, she was able to be sure it was the same person. She decided to play spy and buddy up to her for a little while. Her description was "Didn't seem very smart, weird, very short blond hair, extremely plain, no makeup, drunk, throwing herself at almost every guy who walked by." My friend said she wished that she would have said (when she was done spying). "Oh, by the way, I'll tell Fairydust you said hi. She's a really good friend of mine" just to see the look on her face.[ January 04, 2002: Message edited by: fairydust ]

Well, OW has a website where she sells custom made clothing...like skirts (that's all I saw) fabric store stuff, like I could sew (if I had the time!!!). Anyway, she was a section called about me where she has plastered his pix of her and 1 of her 'german shepherd dog'. Hm...... can't tell which is witch!?!?!? LOL! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] L.

She looks like the Joker, you know, Batman's arch enemy. Only with a head full of frizzy hair. It makes you just want to shear it off and weave a blanket out of it or something. Ba-a-a-a-a-a-a. Okay, a sheep that sounds like it is in the advanced stages of throat cancer and looks like the Joker. Is this a mean desciption or what?Point is--my husband was really in to her. And if he's into an ugly chick, what am I? I must be REALLY bad.

Well---I don't want to break up the momentum here but my OW is only 26 yrs old so she has baby soft skin and big boobs which she does not hide. She is not beautiful but she is ok to look at, about 4'7" (maybe not that short) but never stops talking. WS, before the A, used to come home from work (they are coworkers) and said she talks so much....she never shuts up. That is a fun trait to full in "love" with. It must have been the boobs that he fell for. She is a little overweight so give her another 5 years and she will be over the charts.

OK, this one looks like a man... she really used to be a lesbian- and she has stringy yucky hair, and get this, she has cross-eyed, my son and I found a pic on H's computer and we both sd the same thing- "she's cross eyed!" she doesn't eat because she used to be fat, H says she has stretch marks all over her, and they used to call her michelle the whale... also she has sores all over her butt and coming up to other areas.. that are really gross, it is some sort of blood disease called bachettes, at least that is what I have been told, H says it is really ugly and her butt hurts... she even sent him an email saying that her butt hurt... poor slu+face. I really feel for her- don't you. SHe is usually attracted to the strange.. her H is bald, short and foreign.. she thought she hit the jackpot with mine- she sd she never thought she could get him... that is why she went for him... CONquest was the word- exactly... little did she care about me and the kids, or him either, as he is now finding out as she chooses her little bald foreign H over him... poor dear [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] What else, OH she has dirt under her fingernails, my kids told me that... and she doesn't wear underwear//- guess who gave me that scoop.. she thinks underwear promotes bacteria... must be that icky disease she has (yes, I have alreday been tested, and plan to be tested again,... as I am so scared of this freak and her diseases.)What else... she has a mean, rude voice, I know this because I talked to her on the phone and she was very mean... very very mean... OH and H says I wasn't sweet enough... oh how wrong he is about me...OH well, if I think of more I will come back... enjoy the read.!!My nicknames for her- slu+face, darts (her main thing besides breaking up families)HUGS- HONEY

Berni!!!!!!!!!!!Where the heck have you been????You've been missed. Tell us how you are ....Jo

OOOOOOOHHHHHHH MYYYYYYY GGGAAAAAAAWWWWWWDDDDDDLOL--You guys are freakin' hilarious [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] I haven't laughed like that in, what, a year and a half?? It feels good, doesn't it, to get a little dig in on OP? It's good therapy and it helps us all laugh a little. Don't discount the significance of that.I challenge anyone with our group to post your best description of other person. Would love to hear again from Peachy in Ga--Orchid, hope she is OK? Anyway, I am looking forward to lots and lots of stories on the OP--lets have a good 60's "Laugh IN" (Ok, I'm only 34, give me a break [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] )Guido

Let's see, she has a nice body I'll give her that but she has one of those long horsey faces with big, a** teeth and gums. Wiiiilber...

Hi, It is a bit of a stress reliever. LOL!!! [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] I have seen about 3 or 4 threads like this so during the past year. I wonder how the OPs describe us? ?!?!?! [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] Oh yea, PBR called me chubby, abusive, cruel.... the WS would not let her call me any animal type names. Hmm......., I am sure she tried. [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] Nduli......Wiiiilbur??!?!? too funny!! LOL [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] Peach is having a hard time and may be able to post later. I will try and check on her this weekend. Thanks for asking, I will let her know! L.[ January 05, 2002: Message edited by: Orchid ]

My husband's 26 year old girlfriend actually looks quite attractive in photos I've seen of her. She's kind of an inferior copy of me at the same age - I'm now 36. When I've shown her picture to other people they always say 'well, she's kind of attractive...'. My mother though, she said 'hhmmm, did you notice she's got buck teeth and tries to hide them by not smiling? AND she's got big hips...'. Gotta love my mum! :-)
The girlfriend does have a very harsh, quarrelous (sp?), nasty voice, I know as I once heard her on the phone. Mind you, she's having it off with a married man who is twice her age, that says more than her looks ever will!Evensong

Well, my H is with his 28 year old flight attendant. You think she would be cute...but NOooooooooo................ [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] I only saw her once when I accidently ran into them when trying to talk to my H in August. They must be running short of people to be in the airlines.All I remember is the NOSE!! It is huge. Honestly, I couldn't remember anything else.My friends, who have seen her say she has an ugly color of red hair (all natural by the way), my H told me. It is long. I have a beautiful color of blond hair-probably the thing I like best about me. My kids say she is covered with freckles and talks all the time. K. says she is annoying.She does have a pretty smile. My H described her as a women that society usually has a special name for in an email once--that is why he went with her. She is plump and not in very good shape--not good at only 28--one of my H's pet peeves. He has her working out at the gym now. She has a nasty voice with a weird southern drawl...she really does sound like a hooker. You wouldn't believe that nose.

This is too funny. The OW has a mouth like a monkey -- right down to the teeth. She wears glasses -- tinted BLUE....Long straight blond hair that covers half her face. Her face is all pocked up and has some kind of rash (i'm not kidding) on it. She's absolutely disgusting looking. My WS likes very skinny women, and that's what she is - absolutely no figure. I'm 5'4" and weigh 138 - so I'm 'fat' in his eyes....(I wear 5/6's). But, I'm not a 2X4 like she is.....But at least i have the looks to go with my body. She has nothing. She doesn't even have a job.... Gross...... grosss......grosssssss....ppatch.

<blockquote>quote:<hr>Originally posted by Nduli2:
Wiiiilber...<hr></blockquote>HAAAAAA!! But, wait a minute, Nduli, I already staked out the horse comparison. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] BTW, OM thinks he's a stud now, too - just because he attracted my filly. In a way, I take that as a high compliment.

My H's OW looked like a cross between Ricki Lake and Monica Lewinsky (at their heaviest)...only an older version of them because she was 41 yrs old at the time of the affair!! Can you imagine? His affair was 4 years ago so at the time ALL that was on the darn TV was Clinton and Monica's mugs! Still don't know how I stomached that. AND, my H said that her stretch marks were soooo bad that it freaked him out...he said that she must have noticed that he looked startled...poor thing! Oh and her morals are the worst in the world...wish I could tell you who she is and what she does for a living....you'd flip!!One more thing...her bangs were cut waaaay too short![ January 05, 2002: Message edited by: Angelface ]

This is Great!!!!!!!!!!!Okay my turn. Well I've only seen her once from a distace at a company function where my H works. My D pointed her out to me. She is shorter than me about 5 feet maybe. I'm 5'5. She has short kinda permed bleech blond hair she's obviously a brunett b/c her roots are very very dark. I didn't think she looked heavy but over the summer my H took the kids to his co. picnic and she was there in shorts my D's name for her is Thighzilla.Everyone I know who knows her says that she is very plain and she wears gobs of make-up. Her voice I must say sounds a little like mine heard it when I had access to H's voice mail. My son and his friend saw her at the mall and his friend said she is not pretty at all she looks nothing like me.Always thought if my H lost interest in me he'd go for the young super model type. Not the horse face bleech blond look. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

Sigh I wasn't going to do this...I really can't find much humor in it. And when you really look at it, it can only make us wonder at the thinking of some of our WS...Oh well...hehe. OM #1...Skinny as a rail and looks like Jerry Louis(sp?) in his portrayal of the Nutty Professor. Real dog. OM #2...Not a terribly un-attractive fellow. But has these ugly tatoos all over his arms. And the worst looking head of hair I think I have seen. My children called him Nappy head. OM #3...40 years old but looks 60 or more. Dresses like a farmer and looks like he hasn't taken a bath in months. Another dog. Who knows how many more are lurking around town? One thing is certian, WS is not out for looks. As someone else mentioned, how must that make me look...hehe. jd[ January 05, 2002: Message edited by: jdmac1 ]

This just goes to confirm what we all have learned here on MB ... a great number of EMA occur because of unmet ENs. Seems physical looks aren't that prevalent. That is, unless your WS's EN is "attractive spouse".Jo

Well when you are in the thick part of fog, you might not be able to see your nose much less the OP. Hm.... [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] so when the fog does clear and they see what their 'fantasy' person is really like......YUCK!!! Ohhhh yea, we probably look better then but then do they? I think the WS starts to feel like the OP looks?!?!? Double Yuck!! L.

My WH did actually say to me once, when we sitting down to talk about working things out several months ago, and I'm quoting, "Look at her, she is most men's fantasy girl." (yes, as you can imagine, it was quite effective in convincing me that he was truly sorry, and her looks was his excuse.)She is pretty, if you like CHEAP. She has bleach blond hair, but the kind that shows dark roots (on purpose I suppose) -- one of my co-workers said Motley Crue reject look. She gets her nails done at least weekly painted bright red and about two inches long (I guess that helps her clean up after my three children). She wears a ton of makeup and one of the two times I met her, she was in the bathroom "powdering her nose." -- funny because I don't own a compact. Supposedly she is a size 4 b/c I got the delayed shipment receipt in the mail on this occasion for some lingerie and clothes my H had ordered for their supposed first (yeah, right) date. My line to her in the bathroom was, "Doesn't look like a size 4 to me. oh, and by the way, how long haveyou been f*(king my H?She dresses like a SL%T, mostly to show off the breasts that she got nine days after she left her husband (OWH and I think my H paid for them). My H did say that he knows the breasts are "too big" and if he ever marries her and takes her to one of his conservative company events, that he will have to dress her. He already does dress her according to cc statements, but all the clothes come from victoria's secret. She has a southern drawl that is SOOO bad. And my friends who have met her say that she has nothing to talk about. She smokes -- which isn't a big deal -- except that my H was opposed to smoking so much that he made his PARENTS smoke outside. My babysitter said she almost fell out when OW walked in drunk one night and lit up a cigarette right in the living room.[ January 05, 2002: Message edited by: isitpossible ]

Ok, her's my H's OW:Yes, she is pretty, not drop dead gorgeous, but then she's ONLY 24! Well, no wonder she has beautiful skin w/ no wrinkles! Here she is having an A with my H, who is about to turn 40. (Does that sound like mid-life crisis or what? I guess he wanted to feel young or something.)

She does have huge hips, in 10 years, her butt will be as big as a barn. She's very skinny, except for the hips, but she smokes like a chimney, so she will age fast, and if she ever does stop will probably get fat then! Supposedly her very small breasts sag dreadfully.She is very immature, talks all the time and its always about herself. She is very selfish and is not a good mother to her small child. She started her A w/ my H while separated from her H.Her youth has been hard for me to take, as I'm 37 and have had four kids. I still look pretty good and am small and thin, but those stretchmarks I can do nothing about! Althoough my H has told me several limes that he knows that she will not look as good as me shen she is my age, so I guess that's supposed to make me feel better. Whatever. Well, I am glad for the opportunity to vent, though I wish I had more bad things to say about her, sigh.

<blockquote>quote:<hr>Originally posted by firefly10:
Yes, she is pretty, not drop dead gorgeous, but then she's ONLY 24! Well, no wonder she has beautiful skin w/ no wrinkles! Here she is having an A with my H, who is about to turn 40.
<hr></blockquote>Firefly,I just want you to know that in my H's first A the OW was 14 years younger than him. It lasted 13 mos. They had ZERO in common aside from SEX.It won't last Firefly, you can bank on it.This younger OW has nothing new to offer your H. You're the Real Deal, Hon.Lv,
Jo[ January 05, 2002: Message edited by: Resilient ]

Ok seen one picture of her and her 8 siblings and parents, H was childhood friends with the clan. I am a big person, but I would have been the smallest one in this group. Finally asked H which one was her and he pointed her out, she was the biggest one, nothing to look at, her arms were probably the size of my thigh!!!His best friend from HS was described her for me as a chubby little fat girl with puppy dog eyes, that drooled all over the attention my H gave her!!!

Snake.
Have seen OW only once about a year ago.
Snake who's planning for a boob job.
Ever seen a snake with silicon boobs? Might slow down her wriggling after MM...?
After seeing me she had moaned to H he's only interested in short, busty blondes, so you can guess how she looks like...
She looks like $$$$hungry bimbos look.

Hello all! I am getting quite a kick from this post! As far as what my H's former OW looks like, I am sorry to say she is rather attractive (he reluctantly pointed her out to me once). She is tall, dark haired, busty and athletically built (she and H met while mountain biking one weekend with an organized biking group) and it is quite easy to see why he was attracted to her. I'm a petite yet curvy blonde who doesn't care at all for the outdoors. She is 26, I am 38, H is 42. All is working out pretty well for us since he came to his senses back in September.

This thread is really mean [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] but also a scream!!!
Well, between the "what movie star do you resemble" thread and this one I think we have proven/disproven two theories.(This is for Hailey) BS are not ugly, dried up, fat, old, dried up, bitter, angry

OP's are not usually better catches or more beautiful/handsome etc.It also proves a theory that WS's have illuded to sometimes and that BS's keep writting off. The WS had the affair because the feel sorry for the OP. After these descriptions, what else could it be? [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img]

what a mature thread! [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]

ok, so other than Mistymae's cerebral comments, it seems like we have all managed a great vent. Overwhelmingly, with a few minor exceptions, the OP is not the hottie we imagined. In fact, it's usually a stretch-marked, suicide-blonded, balding, fat, ugly, buck-toothed, STUPID, pot-smoking, White Trash, mullet-wearing, Ho-baggin', verbally-challenged, BEE-OTCH!!!Male or female OP, slam and enjoy it. FEEL GOOD about who YOU are. If you've plan A'd and made changes, then dammit, be proud. As they say in auto racing, "Run whatcha brung (sic)". Be proud of what you are it it's what you want.If it's not--change it and show the changes to your spouse. People who go through life and ***** about not having, being, doing what they want can only rightfully do so if they have sought a plan to right the ship.Complaining without a plan is like walking through the desert with no map or water. The results will be strikingly similar--you not get very far and will probably lose sight of your long term goals to spite survival.Make this exercise beneficial. If you want to rant, knock yourself out. Yes, it sucks to even mention the other person(my WS's OP is a "King of Beer;s " guy. Wow, I'm impressed. But, I can slam his pathetic attempt of a life in this forum and feel good about it. That's all. No more, no less.God Bless,
Guido [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img]

Shortly after D-Day, I was in ladies Bible study here at the post chapel, where I ran the nursery. I was in a total funk--not eating, not sleeping, doing my best to function every darned day, let alone watch screaming toddles for 2 hours. One lady, seeing how distraught I was that day took me aside and I tearfully told her what was happening.I cried "She must be beautiful, my husband left me and my son for another woman, I just got done talking to her and she expresses no sympathy, she's evil, she says that she gives my husband what he needs. To be so ugly inside, and for him to want her, she has to be gorgeous." It was just an idiot vent, just words. I didn't know what else to express.The lady said to me: "It doesn't matter if she is a runway model or a movie star, you have one thing that she doesn't and that's character. Don't forget that."I think that a person's countenance reflects who they are on the inside, really and truly. Think of any snobbish, yet perfectly coiffed person in designer clothing who wears an aura of arrogance? Are they beautiful to you? Someone who is lazy, unclean and doesn't care for themselves are certainly not beautiful. Someone who is sleazy and nasty will sooner or later reflect that in their appearance--dyed hair and tons of make-up and hoochy clothes will never cover it up, only accent that. That's what I am talking about.Until Miss Kitty does something to rectify her misdeed, (who care's if she does, I am not interested in her) she will always look like the Joker.I don't care if you think it's mature to vent or not--it's better to reveal your painful emotions here than to your spouse or children, or even the OP. Seriously. I have to from time to time, the pent up dark feeling I have choke me up with hatred. It's better to vent and be funny about it that obsess and gloom about it. Isn't that mature?[ January 06, 2002: Message edited by: Bernzini ]

Well, the STD Tramp was skinny, red haired, with a bad underbite, and from the one time I saw her, she appeared to be a mouth breather...you know, the kind of person who always has her mouth hanging open. That was almost 16 years ago. Now, she's just a pile of bones, since she's been dead for 10 years.Cafe Woman has big blue eyes and short blond hair that is naturally curly. She used to be a beautician, so her hair is always done perfectly. She also has her own tanning bed, so she always has a great tan. She has a good figure (but almost no boobs), but that tanning bed is turning her skin to wrinkles. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] She's a little over a year older than I am and has a crepy neck. In short, although attractive, she looks as though she's been "rode hard and put up wet". [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

Well let's see Mr. Perfect is 40-44 y/o bald sales exec, with a Mercedes, a line of BS and a little d_ck (by her admission). He also has told her that sex with out emotional connection is not an affair and by this standard WW is only his 2nd affair. What a piece of work.

<blockquote>quote:<hr>Originally posted by zorweb:
Well, between the "what movie star do you resemble" thread and this one I think we have proven/disproven two theories.(This is for Hailey) BS are not ugly, dried up, fat, old, dried up, bitter, angry

OP's are not usually better catches or more beautiful/handsome etc. <hr></blockquote> I have known so many people in affairs over the years and I can honestly only think of ONE OW who was more attractive than the BS, and it wasn't even all that much of a difference. When I used to read the other boards I got the distinct impression that OP like to give themselves the image of being the breathtaking beautiful sirens (and of course all wives are fat, bitter, ugly etc). It just isn't what I have witnessed in real life. Many of the wives are MUCH more attractive (and better people). A good friend of mine (very attractive) was dumped for a girl who was a complete Medusa (breathtaking hideous) and acted like something straight off Jerry Springer. He eventually came begging back (she said no thanks) but it was baffling. When my best friend cheated on her H I was expecting some hot Adonis. The OM was actually like Herb Tarlek on WKRP in Cincinnati. When she came out of the fog she was totally grossed out. Another friend's Dad cheated on her Mom with a fatter, older, less attractive version of her Mom. It's not about looks. With my H it wasn't looks. It was the fact that she was 15 years younger than him and he wanted to pretend to be 21 again.

<blockquote>quote:<hr>Originally posted by fairydust:
With my H it wasn't looks. It was the fact that she was 15 years younger than him and he wanted to pretend to be 21 again.<hr></blockquote>Good points, FD. And your H, well his "want" sounds like a "need" that no one could truly provide.Jo

<blockquote>quote:<hr>Originally posted by Resilient:
Good points, FD. And your H, well his "want" sounds like a "need" that no one could truly provide.Jo<hr></blockquote>Exactly. And he learned that the hard way lol. He also learned that 35 year old men hanging out with 22 year olds and trying to act that age end up looking like idiots. But in the end I think it'r mostly about the fact that the OP is someone different. Simply someone different, not so special, not so drop dead gorgeous. A seemingly blank slate with no history, no obligations, no criticisms of anything the WS does (in the beginning of course). Yes there are men who will fall over their tongues in pursuit of the new office Barbie, but for the most part it doesn't seem that way for most. He/she is just someone new. New is exciting, new makes you feel alive. They forget that when the new wears off it can leave a really nasty hangover.

I'm new to this site but I have to say I love everyones since of humor! My H was 50 when he had his A with 19 yr. old OW. She looked like she had been hit in the face and her eyes were swollen shut...they weren't...she always looks that way. A bit on the hefty side, nothing at all like he's usually attraced to. Very *****y, short tempered, not liked by very many people. It's amazing that during the A the WS and OW only see the "good" side of each other's personality. When they are "found out" their true self seems to surface.
Lizabeth
Married 32 years
Together 34 years
D-Day 03/16/00

<blockquote>quote:<hr>Originally posted by Lizabeth:
My H was 50 when he had his A with 19 yr. old OW.<hr></blockquote>Good Lord! 50 and 19 ..... YIKES!I truly don't mean to offend Lizabeth, but that is almost laughable if it wasn't so sad.And I don't think she would qualify for the title "OW", it's more like "OG" or "OK" (other Kid)I hope everything turned out all right for you two and he did come to his senses, Hon.I guess getting older for some people (men particularly) is very hard to acceptLv,
Jo[ January 07, 2002: Message edited by: Resilient ]

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Triple post, sorry. I am such a dweeeebo.[ January 07, 2002: Message edited by: Resilient ]

Ooooh!! Ooooh! MY TURN!!!"What does my H's OW look like?" Well, I've never really seen her, BUT she's been described to me (by WH) as "weighs about 300-400 lbs.Described by someone who DID see them together, as "kinda tall, yes, heavy, & big boobs." In other words, LIKE HIS MAMA.HOW SICK IS THAT?!?!?!?!?!

My STBX's OW is the younger fitter thinner taller model. same coloring as me and totally understands him.

My H's XOW had a cute face but a fat butt and saggy boobs [she sent a very embarrassing nude to my H and thought she looked quite lovely in it. yikes!] I am told I am much more attractive and I work out 5X a week so I have a very good figure. Her biggest problem was her character, of which she had none. She is married with 2 kids and brings men she meets on the internet to her house to play around when her H is out of town - she introduces them to her kids. A real upstanding character!Here she is:http://hometown.aol.com/twothdr58/

Wow Lizabeth, Didn't know anyone had a bigger age difference than my H and OW. He's 49 and she's 22. I'm 50 and no celebrity look-alike, but still in good shape (though I had a few parts rearranged due to mastectomy and reconstructive surgery). OW on the other hand has nothing special to offer but her youth. She weighs more than twice as much as me, even more than my H, and she's plain looking with dirty blonde hair in no particular style. H insists that her age had nothing to do with it, that she seems so mature to him, but I know her and she's not. But neither was H when he was with her. He bought an old Porsche, started listening to rap music and smoking pot, and stopped going to work. MLC?

<blockquote>quote:<hr>Originally posted by MelodyLane:
MShe is married with 2 kids and brings men she meets on the internet to her house to play around when her H is out of town - she introduces them to her kids. A real upstanding character!Here she is:[/URL]<hr></blockquote>Hee hee. Someone needs to tell her the 80s called and they want their hairdo back. I notice she didn't include shagging married men and cheating on her husband as hobbies or interests lol.

I'm going to answer on both sides. I was the WS and now I am the BS.My OM was 11 years younger than I. He was tall, muscular, dark hair, green eyes. Sounds good eh? He was as plain as the they come and it didn't matter because he gave me the attention that was sorely lacking in my marriage.WH's OW is probably mid 40's. Tall, thin, short auburn hair, gorgeous green eyes, a total package of a beautiful woman. She is also married, has had many affairs, and has the morals of an alley cat.So to say beauty is only skin deep seems correct here and I guess "love" is blind even when it's really only "lust".

Haven't seen her myself, but what I know is skinny body with stingy little tits, lifeless blonde hair and the brain of a slug. Hmmm...she'd make any man drool, wouldn't she?Rose RedP.S. If I were a single, Barbie-type, would I want some other woman's baggage-laden husband with a few thousand miles on him? No way--I'd want my own hunk to lead around by the nose. No wonder all these OW/OM's are so pathetic. They must realize deep down that they can't get/don't deserve someone with total freedom of choice.[ January 08, 2002: Message edited by: Rose Red ]

What a great topic!Our OW was the person at my wh's office parties I felt sorry for because she has a "I want to be an extra in Grease" ridiculous beach blond haircut, wears gobs of that gooey 'my face is a different color than my neck' makeup and tons of lipstick, and has a body that reveals oh-so-easily the three kids she's had and obviously never gotten into shape from. It turns out that she's my age, but I actually thought she was around 38-40...she looks terrible. I had pictures of her from a party and emailed them to my WH's sis (my best friend) and she was stunned! Her image of her brother as the guy who only like hotties was gone forever - direct quote!on a side note, I went to WH's work the other night (he works nights and she's still there) dressed up to meet my brother downtown - Yes I looked awesome in my new size 6 outfit....who's the first person I run into on the floor (hospital)? - "not so little" old OW....I gave her the once up and once down, did the "I won" hair flounce thingy and proceeded down the hall to receive my well-earned oohs and ahhs from WH's other co-workers.....can someone tell me if this is what heaven feels like???? heheheheheLLL

OM has a web site with his picture on it, how I want to post the link here for all to see, maybe I should, but wouldn't that be sort of like an LB? Anyway, the clown uses drugs, likes porn, doesn't help his W do hardly anything around the house, had an A about a year ago with a friends fiancee, spends all his free time on the couch, has no motivation to do anything with his life, just a real winner. And W choose that guy over me, talk about rubbing salt in the wounds! Why do they choose such losers?

All I know about my H OW is that she was over 200# not long ago. When he and the OW had their sexual frenzy, she was still somewhat overweight. H said she had a nice butt, poochy tummy and had bald spots on her head. So I see this (saw a picture of her a long time ago, she was heavy in the picture). I see a dark haired woman, with thin stringy hair, with bald spots, lots of stretch marks, and loose hanging skin. She is about 2" taller than me. H told me so. I see her breasts falling down to her belly button, and cellulite everywhere. Hey, she had what he wanted.
Body, mind, witty, cellulite, not withholding in the sex department. I would of not done what she did, only seeing the OP that day. We live 2000 miles away. But of course, she has already had the experience of having another sexual affair in her marriage 10 years ago. I guess it won't be long for the next affair.

The stringiest thinnest flattest head of hair you've ever seen.... A huge beak of a nose.... I mean HUGE!!! Saggy boobs and big hips (this came from my MIL and sister)..... And to top that off, she let my kid get burnt tonight while she was helping her "cook" supper......

<blockquote>quote:<hr>Originally posted by fairydust:
Hee hee. Someone needs to tell her the 80s called and they want their hairdo back. I notice she didn't include shagging married men and cheating on her husband as hobbies or interests lol.<hr></blockquote>LOLOL fairydust, you kill me!

<blockquote>quote:<hr>Originally posted by MelodyLane:
LOLOL fairydust, you kill me!<hr></blockquote>I agree Dana Jo ... that's our very own Fairydust, she pretty much ROCKS!