Sexual performance - 03/27/02 09:36 PM
I found out a little over a month ago that my husband of 11 years had an affair, or a week-long sex relatioship with a co-worker, 20 years younger than him. We have decided to work on our marriage and re-build, if we can.
However when it comes to the sex, the last few times he has not been able to reach orgasim. One day he does, the next time he does not, the last 2 times he has not, I feel I am not making him happy, or cant meet his need. He tells me not to worry about it, that he is just getting old. He seems to enjoy the sex. I just feel bad when I can get off and he cant. Is this a normal process following an affair?
Is it me?
What should I do?
My husband is a wonderful lover and always makes sure I am satisfied.
What can I do?
However when it comes to the sex, the last few times he has not been able to reach orgasim. One day he does, the next time he does not, the last 2 times he has not, I feel I am not making him happy, or cant meet his need. He tells me not to worry about it, that he is just getting old. He seems to enjoy the sex. I just feel bad when I can get off and he cant. Is this a normal process following an affair?
Is it me?
What should I do?
My husband is a wonderful lover and always makes sure I am satisfied.
What can I do?