I'm disappointed...Help Me understand My Wife! - 05/11/02 06:41 PM
Ok, I'm sure I'm not alone here, but I'm trying to get my W interested in the MB principles. She has picked up a few of the books I'm reading, but says things like "they are dumb". She did say she liked the Surviving an Affair" the best. That's interesting because she is the one that had the A. (I had an EA 4 years ago (Internet) that lasted 6 mo. and ended ubruptly when I saw how it hurt her)<p>Ok so I was trying to figure out what her EN's are and what are some LB's for her etc., but she seemed disinterested. I asked her doesn't she want to restore "Romantic Love" and she said matter of factly, "There never was any Romantic Love". She has a way of defeating me before I even get started. Is this a normal reaction?<p>She's acting like she's in another EA or something. Is it common for the WS to show NO interest even though the OMM is gone?<p>I have an appointment with SH next thurs. by myself, so hopefully I can get this restoration process started!<p>Well any insights are appreciated. Feeling disappointed [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]