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Posted By: 2334pem what do you do when you know its happening but they say it isn't - 02/19/06 06:45 PM
my brother was seen w/another woman and has had suspicious behavior, going out at nite, coming home early am and he was seen w/another woman at a bar, but he says they aren't having an affair......ok so how do you know for sure... i am sitting w/hysterical sister in law imagine me dealing w/this all over again

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Posted By: 2334pem Re: what do you do when you know its happening but they say it isn't - 02/19/06 07:08 PM
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Posted By: moveforward Re: what do you do when you know its happening but they say it isn't - 02/19/06 07:11 PM
I suppose it is time to start heavy snooping. GPS, recorder, cell phone and records, etc. Get the proof so when she confronts, she'll have the info she needs.

So sorry for your family to be dealing with this.
Posted By: 2334pem Re: what do you do when you know its happening but they say it isn't - 02/19/06 07:18 PM
he doesn't have a cell phone, what records can i look up? they have no charge cards, he has automatic deposit, she does the bills and a book of checks is missing. is the gps it?
Posted By: moveforward Re: what do you do when you know its happening but they say it isn't - 02/19/06 07:35 PM
Does she do the bank statements, too?

She should be able to tell if he is spending anything that way.

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