How do you get over the pain? - 11/06/07 08:42 PM
D-Day was just over a week ago.
I was/am devastated. We had marital problems, separated briefly, WH started the affair at that time. We reconciled...but the affair didn't end until a relative of the OW told me of the situation.
I can forgive...I'm not even that angry at this point. I know where I need to be, but this hurt, sadness and physical pain just won't go away.
How do I get over the pain? What should I expect of myself and my WH?
I was/am devastated. We had marital problems, separated briefly, WH started the affair at that time. We reconciled...but the affair didn't end until a relative of the OW told me of the situation.
I can forgive...I'm not even that angry at this point. I know where I need to be, but this hurt, sadness and physical pain just won't go away.
How do I get over the pain? What should I expect of myself and my WH?