reconciling plan A with No Contact??? - 11/12/05 03:18 AM
I haven't read SAA yet- it's waiting in my mailbox for when I get back home next week (also lovebusters)
but in the meantime answer me this-
In the ADMITTEDLY REMOTE possibility that plan A results in the WS feeling comfortable enough to begin re-committing to the marriage-
HOW would this reconcile with what I take as Harley's fairly unmoveable commitment to No Contact?
In other words, I understand the No Contact to be the initiator of plan B-- but if you manage to survive without having to go to plan B, how do you deal with the unresolved issue of NC?
maybe wait until things are better, then broach the topic? or just hope, perhaps naively, that NC won't be needed?
but in the meantime answer me this-
In the ADMITTEDLY REMOTE possibility that plan A results in the WS feeling comfortable enough to begin re-committing to the marriage-
HOW would this reconcile with what I take as Harley's fairly unmoveable commitment to No Contact?
In other words, I understand the No Contact to be the initiator of plan B-- but if you manage to survive without having to go to plan B, how do you deal with the unresolved issue of NC?
maybe wait until things are better, then broach the topic? or just hope, perhaps naively, that NC won't be needed?