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Hey mb'ers. My birthday is next week so yesterday I changed my cel phone number. WW will not be able to find me. We must protect ourselves during plan B! Take all precautions.

Good idea tofu because it will help you stay the course of moving forward with the divorce.

I agree with what tigger said to you that just because you get divorce that it doesn't necesarily mean that there isn't a possible relationship with her in the future. And if that is the case, hopefully she will have grown up and realized the mistake she made in having the A. Some couples have remarried after divorcing each other you know.

Remember that the greatest enemy we'll ever face is the one that looks back at us in the mirror.

[ July 02, 2002, 06:46 PM: Message edited by: thejohnsmith ]

hey, tofu... where you been? I haven't heard from you in a while so I thought I'd just check up on you to keep you out of trouble... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Hey, that is great Tofu;
I just had a talk with my H for the second time about having no contact. I think he got it this time. We will see as it is hard with the kids.
By the way, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!! Go have a great time.... Kim.

Hey I am writing from the cybertent at the Gathering of the Vibes in upstate NY! I decided to get away for awhile and do some things that I enjoy doing for a few days. I haven't been able to get to a computer for awhile. I saw the cybertent today and thought I would catch up with my mb friends. today has been real hard. I put up my tent and found a lot of my wife's long hairs inside. Man, the sadness hit me hard. It is amazing how hard it is to let go even when you have been totally screwed. I am hanging in there. I talked to divorce lawyer before leaving on this little trip and will probably go ahead and proceed once I return but I must admit I am kind of avoiding it right now! I need to be stronger. Well, I never expected it to be easy.

Good to hear from you, tofu. And your writing from a cybertent! Still able to hang onto a few modern conveniences even when camping.

Sounds like you're a little down again. Like you said, we never expect it to be easy. Things have gone really crazy for me lately. I expected some setbacks, but my WW is messing with my head again. I probably should've moved on w/out her for my sake, and the kids. I know she's got another crazy scheme planned w/ her OM. I'm not going to get into the story right now, but I'd bet a year's wages that it's more crap to try to pull me in the fog regarding my upcoming child support hearing. I'm just sure that she's trying to make things look good for her when she goes in front of the judge. But, it's too late. She's already done enough damage... I should be able to get them. God, I pray everyday for these boys of mine.

Well, happy camping, tofu. I was planning a trip this weekend myself, but it got botched up. Oh, well, I'll get out of here one of these days.

Take care. Let me know how the bugs treated you.

<blockquote>quote:<hr />Original post by thejohnsmith:
I know she's got another crazy scheme planned w/ her OM. I'm not going to get into the story right now, but I'd bet a year's wages that it's more crap to try to pull me in the fog regarding my upcoming child support hearing. I'm just sure that she's trying to make things look good for her when she goes in front of the judge. But, it's too late. She's already done enough damage... I should be able to get them. God, I pray everyday for these boys of mine.
<hr /></blockquote>I take it that you are going to proceed with contacting an attorney to start the divorce proceedings?