credit card debt - 05/06/08 06:36 PM
my dh has credit card debt - most of which he had before we met - he told me it was around $30K and he was working very hard to bring the balance down. After a year or so, I found out the debt is more around $46K and growing. I thought he was paying it down because he puts in at least 60-70 hours a week.
He does not let me see his bills, paychecks, etc. We keep everything seperate - his checking account / my checking account. When I do try to talk about the debt, he gets upset and angry with me. He tells me he is in control of the situation and I need to not worry about it.
So do I just let it go and forget about it or what? Dh gives me some money each week to help with groceries and bills...could give more if he wasn't paying it all to the credit card companies. WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
He does not let me see his bills, paychecks, etc. We keep everything seperate - his checking account / my checking account. When I do try to talk about the debt, he gets upset and angry with me. He tells me he is in control of the situation and I need to not worry about it.
So do I just let it go and forget about it or what? Dh gives me some money each week to help with groceries and bills...could give more if he wasn't paying it all to the credit card companies. WHAT WOULD YOU DO?