I'm in the state of withdrawal - 11/22/00 11:45 AM
Ok. I need help with this one. I am a newlywed, second time for both of us and each with kids.<BR>I'll try and keep this brief. I come home from work with my daughter and my w is home and her x husband is there in the house. Her kids are there. I walk in and they are chit-chatting. I was becoming very agitated. I saw no reason for him to be there. You see I was all excited about coming home to my family only to find "Mr drop by just to see the kids" there. This is not a first time for this and w and I have talked about it. So after a few minutes my w says, Oh I forgot the kids(hers) have a doctors appt. and we(her and x) have to have a consultation with doctor. So, my w, her x and the kids walk out the door, they load into his vehicle and take off for 2 hours for a family trip to the doctors. I stood at the window in utter disbelief. My daughter looked at me with the same look. I felt betrayed, very disrespected and hurt. I don't think this is normal or healthy for everyone.(reunion fantasy for kids) Meeting at the appt. would have been normal. So w knows I'm upset but has not said a word. I'm, for the most part, withdrawn. Am I crazy? I have never in all my years had a girlfriend or a wife be so chummy with an x-lover. Help!