Four years later - 11/27/14 03:48 AM
Four years ago my husband was in a EA and PA. He would not stop the affair once I found out and even moved out and continued the affair. Many harsh things were said on the way out the door and our children and I endured extreme pain during the time he was away. I'm sure all of this is known by eqch and every BS here.
My husband I were able to reconcile after a few months of him leaving. Although I did not know of the methods recommended here at the time, it's pretty similar to what occurred.
What I still struggle with today though is still knowing my husband had feelings for someone else. He's done a lot to make amends and we do have a better and wiser marriage now but it's still there. The pain of knowing that occurred. I am for the most part healed but that will often stop me in my tracks when I remember. Sometimes I wonder if this will ever go away.
I'm wondering from women who have lived through the abandonent then infidelity, the rejection and how you truly got over this. I know my husband does not have feelings any longer but he did and he went through thr withdrawal period for a few months after returning home. This rips my heart out still to this day. How do you cope?
My husband I were able to reconcile after a few months of him leaving. Although I did not know of the methods recommended here at the time, it's pretty similar to what occurred.
What I still struggle with today though is still knowing my husband had feelings for someone else. He's done a lot to make amends and we do have a better and wiser marriage now but it's still there. The pain of knowing that occurred. I am for the most part healed but that will often stop me in my tracks when I remember. Sometimes I wonder if this will ever go away.
I'm wondering from women who have lived through the abandonent then infidelity, the rejection and how you truly got over this. I know my husband does not have feelings any longer but he did and he went through thr withdrawal period for a few months after returning home. This rips my heart out still to this day. How do you cope?